LazyingHarderThanEver

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[–] LazyingHarderThanEver@lemmy.world 3 points 9 hours ago (1 children)

+1 and you feel that you are forgetting something important, but you can't remember and the deadline of said something keeps getting closer

I see thanks! I'll focus on the last part. ❤️

[–] LazyingHarderThanEver@lemmy.world 3 points 10 hours ago* (last edited 9 hours ago) (1 children)

Its not an insult, I would agree that I was naive/too sensitive, it was just unexpected and bummer that I wasn't prepared for in a more grown up environment (maybe this is the correct term)?

[–] LazyingHarderThanEver@lemmy.world 2 points 10 hours ago (3 children)

I mean its just not common to private chat, I guess it could be interpreted as not mean, but still kinda of uncalled for

[–] LazyingHarderThanEver@lemmy.world 2 points 11 hours ago* (last edited 11 hours ago) (2 children)

I mean it was a group chat not focused on studies and other people were already sending memes and workout tips there, so I don't really know what I did wrong. Like, it just bothered me, and I am a bit sad that even something so small could bother me,

It was a general chat where some people were already sending memes and so on, theres a separate group chat dedicated to studies, and its pretty dead most of the time, after some hours since I stopped talking there and no one is writing anything, so I don't really get it why exactly I receive that, he was probably being pranky or something

Thanks! Switched from Reddit to Lemmy recently

[–] LazyingHarderThanEver@lemmy.world 2 points 12 hours ago* (last edited 12 hours ago) (5 children)

I mean, I am maybe somewhat sensitive, but its just an unnecessary comment when other person doesn't know you personally, I am already used to getting trash on the internet, never received comment like that before even in HS when the other person clearly knows you personally.
Maybe I should add that the whole chat was just me and another sophmore

Truly an outstanding move

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submitted 12 hours ago* (last edited 10 hours ago) by LazyingHarderThanEver@lemmy.world to c/casualconversation@lemm.ee
 

I just entered a text message chat from the group of students of my course, and after talking a there over some days with a sophomore (most of the chat was just me interacting) someone said "wow, the freshmen are really getting acquainted, writing shit and what else". That was so out pocket, closed the app and now I am ranting here, is this still kind of behavior normal in your uni/country? Its so bizarre, the guy was just sophomore. EDIT: thanks everyone for the replies, I appreciate them, I think there's some grow on my part to be done, because this seems to be way more common than I think. Welp, kinda of a bummer anyway.

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