SamemaS

joined 5 months ago
[–] SamemaS@lemmy.wtf 0 points 3 months ago* (last edited 3 months ago) (1 children)

This isn't a sangha, as anonymity is antithetical to one, no way to hold one accountable for right conduct. Actually you would do well to go join an actual sangha. In fact if all your posts are truthful, that would probably be a very good idea. You get away from your supposed abusers and you get to actually practice Buddhism.

https://www.azbuddhisttemple.org/ <- go there. Get help there.

[–] SamemaS@lemmy.wtf 2 points 3 months ago* (last edited 3 months ago) (3 children)

Why post here about it? Go to !fediverse@lemmy.world or something.

On an anonymous forum someone spamming weird pleas, pity-farming and constant trauma-dumping just reads as trolling. Nobody has 0 reason to believe anything you write. If you're in distress, call a help line. If you're assaulted, call the police. You've probably been blocked by half of Lemmy already because even if you're being sincere, there's literally nothing anyone can do to help you. Because again, anonymous forum. The fact that you seem to lack the common sense to understand this is exactly why you get blocked, banned or just ignored.

Lemmy can't help you. Get actual help.

[–] SamemaS@lemmy.wtf 0 points 3 months ago (1 children)

Holy shit the escalation on Lemmy is just insane. Where the fuck did Optional say genocide enablers are good? There's 0 reason to make that claim. He said something mildly critical of certain streak of slacktivism on Lemmy and now he's a genocide supporter.

Do you ever give even the slightest thought to considering if it would be a bit easier to take you seriously if you wasn't so insanely hyperbolic all the fucking time?

[–] SamemaS@lemmy.wtf 2 points 3 months ago

Which of the systems allows for you to pursue your ideal system - an activity which you would probably add to your definition of a worthwhile life?

[–] SamemaS@lemmy.wtf 6 points 3 months ago (1 children)

No, it’s not a tautology, it’s a pragmatic principle.

A tautology is a statement that’s true by definition and doesn’t add new meaning (e.g., "A circle is round").

An ontological tautology would be:

A system that supports the kind of life one thinks is worthwhile supports the kind of life one thinks is worthwhile.

[–] SamemaS@lemmy.wtf 2 points 3 months ago

Essentially, two glorified memes, using text I provided.

I get that people can have a lot going on, which is why I don't want to nag but it's also not my job to worry about if they are too busy: communicating it is on them. Perpetually saying "soon" is not that.

Also, I didn't issue a command at them, this was specifically a request to which they agreed, for which they get paid.

People are responsible for holding their own boundaries.

 

Also missing from the image:

The message from month ago saying "I'll get them over tonight."

[–] SamemaS@lemmy.wtf 4 points 4 months ago

Was working at a kitchen as a dish washer. Had this little cart to pick up plates etc. from the restaurant side. Was just returning the cart, fully loaded into the kitchen, to the dish spot and bumped the wheel into something, or it jammed. Tons of plates and food scraps on the floor...

 

as the title says. I sometimes want to just have something on the background. I like https://loficafe.net/ but for sake of variety I'd like other recs and SoundCloud is clumsy to browse.

No YouTube, no Spotify.

[–] SamemaS@lemmy.wtf 1 points 4 months ago* (last edited 4 months ago)

In certain countries it is a way of social insurance. Many countries lack any other means of ensuring elder care etc.

[–] SamemaS@lemmy.wtf 3 points 4 months ago

Yeah this. People cuss at the price of repair sometimes being even higher than a new product (which is a valid criticism) but you're still more likely to be supporting a local worker rather than some faceless megacorp (though probably any spare parts might come from a corp, but at least some of the labor is rewarded as is due)

[–] SamemaS@lemmy.wtf 6 points 4 months ago

I'm in my 40's and by golly do I like charts.

I mean I realize that my whole topic might specifically attract only my age group to respond. But it's not like I'm making an academic study 😅

[–] SamemaS@lemmy.wtf 7 points 4 months ago (2 children)

A lot of people are way older than I thought. Interesting. Thank you!

 

Hope a two part question is allowed but after mostly lurking a lot, I'm noticing that there do seem to be quite a lot of Xennials. But on the other hand, also plenty of rebellious youth.

In my mind I'm thinking that Lemmy userbase is (very broadly generalizing) dividing into people who saw internet's early days and as such, aren't scared of the slight technical hurdles to enter. They tend to be a bit worldweary but Lemmy does feel a bit more like OG internet, which they like (this is me). But also, there's younger people who are techy enough to deal with the hurdles too but see using Lemmy as a sort of an act of rebellion against the mainstream internet (which I appreciate).

That said I feel like the two clash a lot since the former tends to have fewer shits to give than the latter. As often is the case in the whole history of humanity.

Obviously there's plenty of people who don't fall into either camps, which is why I'm curious. Lemmy is small enough to have a sense that there are actual, real, individual people here, as opposed to Reddit's amorphous blob of a massive userbase most of whom seem like bots.

[–] SamemaS@lemmy.wtf 8 points 4 months ago* (last edited 4 months ago)

yeah people dogpile a lot. One person disagrees, very often with a snarky strawman and gets upvoted and people take that as a cue that it's what they are supposed to think, instead of actually thinking for themselves (but they're totes above groupthink)

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