I mean the reason they implied you were being obtuse is clearly they are not talking about people in poverty or people who have no other choices.
That is in no way clearly understood from that single absolutist statement or the context around it.
They additionally went on to reply with
Maybe the Inuit had to 300 years ago. You have a Walmart near you. Be real.
That's not a reply (either literally or in context) that is considering poverty.
It's not quite a "let them eat cake", but it's in the same general vicinity.
Regardless, i suspected it wasn't as absolutist as it seemed, which is why my reply was prefaced with "If you truly believe that statement applies 100% of the time (in this context),"
My issue, as i very explicitly explained, is that using such absolutist statements gives the impression of mental inflexibility which subsequently weakens the perception of any surrounding statements (for me at least).
If I’m having a conversation about science with someone and they opened with "The world is flat" I’m for damn sure going to scrutinise everything else they say after that, even if it sounds reasonable.
About 70% of people in the US have the option to eat at least 5x less meat, if any at all, yet look for any excuse they can get to not do it. I grew up with people on very low incomes who were vegan, and this was 18 years ago when vegan options were far less available than they are now.
Sure, I’m not arguing against any of that, it sounds plausible.
I'd argue there's a conversation about the difference between "vegan options" and the general availability and accessibility of food that qualifies as vegan (and how that has changed over nearly 20 years) but that's a different subject.
They were not “privileged” by any stretch yet they saw it as a moral wrong and sacrificed to follow their morality.
Privilege is relative , people scraping by on 3 full-time jobs just to get food and pay rent aren't rich or affluent but (subjectively) they are more privileged than the unassisted mentally ill person living on the streets.
I assume the people you knew made their choices after weighing their options and that's all anybody can ask.
If they subsequently harmed themselves or their loved ones in the short or long term then that's their sacrifice to make.
However, judging someone else for feeding their family with the food the can afford rather than taking the "moral" high ground isn't something i can get behind.
And "You live near a walmart" isn't an argument made by someone who's considering their relative privilege.
Well, shit....that would explain it, my bad.