[-] WongKaKui@piefed.social 2 points 4 months ago

My new Depresion song: 朴树 -- 平凡之路 ("Ordinary Road")

(No Subtitles :/ , so here are lyrics: https://singandlearnchinese.com/ping-fan-zhi-lu-pu-shu/)

Secondary Depression song: 鄧紫棋 G.E.M. -- 一路逆風 AGAINST THE WIND

This one is sort of uplifting: 王力宏 Wang Leehom -- 就是現在 "Now Is the Time" (Has Mandarin "Rap" lines lol)

This one is completely English: 王力宏 Wang Leehom -- Forever Your Dad

(Damn I wish one of my parents made a song dedicated to me lol)

This one is basically what I feel about my mom: 王力宏 Leehom Wang -- Can You Feel My World

(no subtitles :/ , here's some random fan's site/blog I found that I skimmed and translation looks fine... https://bunnyandbear.wordpress.com/2008/11/21/can-you-feel-my-world-wang-lee-hom-%E7%8E%8B%E5%8A%9B%E5%AE%8F/)

I'm gonna sing this to her and test her reaction lmao... Lets hope I don't get disowned xD

This one is interesting, mixed of Mandarin and substantial amount of lines in English: 王力宏 Wang Leehom -- I'm Alive

(no English subtitles... :/ , so again, here's some random site: https://www.musixmatch.com/lyrics/%E7%8E%8B%E5%8A%9B%E5%AE%8F/I-m-Alive/translation/chinese-romaji)

If links seems broken or wrong, lemme know

I have a bunch more, but don't wanna spam like 20 links here lol... I'm probably gonna make a comm later and post them there.

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submitted 4 months ago* (last edited 4 months ago) by WongKaKui@piefed.social to c/nostupidquestions@lemmy.world

e.g: c/Music...

I wanna make a c/ChineseMusic... cuz it's kinda weird to post in c/Music where its mostly English/Western music... I don't wanna feel kinda obnoxious and feel like I'm "invading" a space... (and c/Chinese is for language learning, doesn't feel like I should be going there to spam Youtube links lol)

(I've been finding a bunch of Mandarin songs on Youtube and I feel like sharing... or I guess it could also serve as a sort of "bookmark" for me lol)

[-] WongKaKui@piefed.social 5 points 4 months ago

Sent to me via MMS, via international roaming...

Mom told my brother to send photos to me with his phone which is better(?) and he said he posted in WeChat... and just basically ignores me lol... dude hates having a younger sibling lol

But I don't have a WeChat account... (not sure if I want WeChat on my phone (corporate apps and all)... but like every Chinese Diaspora uses it tho 😕)

So many Chinese diaspora / Asian diaspora groups on Discord... aaahhh wtf I don't want corporate scanning my entire phone lol (can they even do that? sandboxing prevents that right?)

[-] WongKaKui@piefed.social 5 points 4 months ago

It's a Galaxy A32 5G from like years ago...

I don't think she even cleans the lenses... I mean dust probably got inside the camera... 🤷‍♂️

[-] WongKaKui@piefed.social 7 points 4 months ago

I remember I kinds did some "parkour" on the ledge... (just walking on the ledge there not really "parkour" but its more fun to think of it as parkour lol)... Like you see that wheelchair ramp thing? I remember like just hopping over the barrier and on to the stairs and the back on the other side... kinda scary to think the on the other side of it is like a very high drop... 🫣

Oh we used to play with these "Skateboards" in the plaza around the area... (still played this a bit when we were in Brooklyn NYC during the first few years when I was like 8-12, then just grew out of it... felt childish to me)

Also safety? Pffff my dad literally just turned off an electric circuit then proceeded to TOUCH THE WIRES without gloves to fix something...

Like what if the circuit switch failed? Where are the precautions? Do electritions do this? (He did not have a license in electricity stuff)

I was like: Aaaahhh dad don't die and leave me alone on this mortal realm... 🥺

Luckily nothing happened

Also: OSHA is not a thing in China.

On a related note: My old apartment building would not meet western safety standards...

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submitted 4 months ago by WongKaKui@piefed.social to c/pics@lemmy.world

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Do y'all like these "4K" Photos? 👀

(It's Guangzhou City btw... pretty sure I used to walked around here as a kid before we emigrated)

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submitted 5 months ago by WongKaKui@piefed.social to c/pics@lemmy.world

This was actually taken last month but I procrastinated and forgot to post this till now lmao

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Panorama:

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Anyone wanna Geoguess the exact coordinates of this? (It's kinda easy mode tbh)

[-] WongKaKui@piefed.social 1 points 6 months ago

Hey, don't question me, not my doing LMFAO. 🤣

(Very frugal parents... literally every thing gets repurposed for something else. There are still stuff in the house that is never fixed... heater randomly quits working, bathtub randomly leaks water downstairs, refrigerator sometimes lets icecream melt, roach infestation... don't judge xD, not my fault. And my family is no longer poor anymore, not as of currently, just refuses to spend money to fix stuff since they grew up in poverty. Literally every penny gets invested)

[-] WongKaKui@piefed.social 4 points 6 months ago

Red envelopes that my mom asked me for it to "help me keep it safe" 🫠

So in my experience, it's all just a big show, its performance.

[-] WongKaKui@piefed.social 3 points 6 months ago

My cat doesn't even wanna touch any "human food", only eats catfood. You can out fresh fish and she will not eat it. Only smell it.

In China, it used to be that there was food insecurity and cats just, unfortunately, get fed scraps of leftover food basically, and they actually had to eat mice.

Idk what happens in new years... probably get fed better? maybe? idk

My cat never eats the mouse, only kills them and leave them around. Sometimes my cat leave them half-dead and the mouse runs away.

So my cat is a privilaged American cat that gets to eats catfood whenever she wants, all year round lol

[-] WongKaKui@piefed.social 2 points 6 months ago

OMG 我屬馬嘅 I'm gonna be 24 this year after my birthday

Going off on a tangent:

But its funny how because 落地占歲 I'm technically unofficially 25 since I was considered 1 years old at birth??? (cuz 9 months spent inside a womb apparantly counts lmfao), and new years, even before your official birthday counts... towards your age...

So I ask my grandma, what happens if you were born the day before new years?

So you just become unofficially "2 years old", 1 day after your birth cuz of weird shenanigans... where you are 1 years old at birth, then on new years your age counts uo by 1?!? lmfao

So I was like "A 16 year + 1 day old person can say they're 18 then?"

I don't think a Mainlander can walk into a bar in China and get alcohol that way, only legal age counts lmfao, not this 迷信 stuff

But anyways... I kinda wanna magically become a horse and run around wild

My older brother was born in '97, the year of the Handover from British, so he got to visit HK fore free for bring born that year (or something like that, maybe I misheard), so that's why we went to HK for tourism as family... so long ago... I can barely remember.

My paternal grandpa would say something like: 牛耕田,馬食谷。 Because he's 屬牛 I'm 屬馬 so my brother didn't like that saying lmfao.

Anyways: 新年快樂

Family of Origin is so frustrating tho... 煩死啦

Oops I said the 死 字

新年流流,唔好意頭 or something... i dont really care anymore...

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submitted 6 months ago by WongKaKui@piefed.social to c/pics@lemmy.world

crossposted from: https://piefed.social/c/theasiandiaspora/p/1785433/oc-my-lunar-new-year-in-usa-chinese-american-edition-philadelphia-pa


So this is like a table my parent put right by the door, then they get the fake money stuff and hold it in between the palm of their hands, do some prayer thing, then burn the "fake money", so the ancestors in the heavens can... checks notes ...get money to spend? Idk I'm so confused, as a 1.5 gen I don't even understand my own heritage either.

(Also why is Heaven run under capitalism? lmfao, but hey, at least we can relate to our "ancestors in the heavens", money struggles both in coporeal and non-corporeal forms 😆 (meant as a joke, pls don't bring the seriousness of politics here lol))

Honestly idk if I'd even do this stuff with my future chosen-family... I'm just very leaning towards atheism and, no offense to my ancestors, but this just seems kinda silly to me IMO.

I feel too Americanized already and doing this now makes me feel like I'm a "phoney" (as if I'm a "pretender to Chinese Culture"... like idk my mind doesn't feel very "Chinese" exactly... I haven't participated in the prayer thing ever since like teenage years and I read about atheism)

Also now its new years and I'm not allowed to mention "bad words" like... "death" and like no yelling allowed

Oh yea mom maybe can you do the "no scolding your children" thing 365 days a year? thanks xD

Bonus:

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So anyways: Enjoy your Lunar New Years! (enjoy the few days of being immune from getting a scolding xD cuz it's bad luck to scold your children on New Years apparantly)

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!ocpoetry@piefed.social - For Original Poetry

I know there's already one, but I'll say, the more the merrier.

Also idk why Lemmy Federate doesn't work for some instances like lemmy.world, can't see any of my posts from there due to 0 local subscribers. 🤔 (should have like 4 posts)

So... anyways... it's just a place where I vent about stuff... in a... sort of... poetic way... idk where else to even post it and I don't wanna support reddit, so here... feel free to read, critique... turn your thoughts into a poem... or just ignore... lol

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!ocpoetry@piefed.social - For Original Poetry

I know there's already one, but I'll say, the more the merrier.

Also idk why Lemmy Federate doesn't work for some instances like lemmy.world, can't see any of my posts from there due to 0 local subscribers. 🤔 (should have like 4 posts)

So... anyways... it's just a place where I vent about stuff... in a... sort of... poetic way... idk where else to even post it and I don't wanna support reddit, so here... feel free to read, critique... turn your thoughts into a poem... or just ignore... lol

[-] WongKaKui@piefed.social 43 points 8 months ago

How I feel right now as a naturalized US citizen:

(alt text: "(chuckles) I'm in danger." meme)

P.S. It's even more complicated in my situation, since my citizenship is technically called derived citizenship which mean I have citizenship because it comes from the fact that my mother became a citizen when I was a was under 18 so I automatically got citizenship status. I'm not a lawyer, but a quick search online apparantly says if my mother somehow gets denatualized, I could lose it too, through no fault of my own.

So... yea... mom pls don't do weird shady shit... (I don't know if she has any "skeletons in the closet")

👀

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submitted 8 months ago by WongKaKui@piefed.social to c/news@lemmy.world

Archived Link: https://archive.ph/Yh8Tm

The Trump administration plans to ramp up efforts to strip some naturalized Americans of their citizenship, according to internal guidance obtained by The New York Times, marking an aggressive new phase in President Trump’s immigration crackdown.

The guidance, issued on Tuesday to U.S. Citizenship and Immigration Services field offices, asks that they “supply Office of Immigration Litigation with 100-200 denaturalization cases per month” in the 2026 fiscal year. If the cases are successful, it would represent a massive escalation of denaturalization in the modern era, experts said. By comparison, between 2017 and this year to date, there had been just over 120 cases filed, according to the Justice Department.

Under federal law, people may be denaturalized only if they committed fraud while applying for citizenship, or in a few other narrow circumstances. But the Trump administration has shown a zeal for using every tool at its disposal to target legal and illegal immigrants, leading activists to warn that such a campaign could sweep up people who had made honest mistakes on their citizenship paperwork and sow fear among law-abiding Americans.

“Imposing arbitrary numerical targets on denaturalization cases risks politicizing citizenship revocation,” said Sarah Pierce, a former U.S.C.I.S. official. “And requiring monthly quotas that are 10 times higher than the total annual number of denaturalizations in recent years turns a serious and rare tool into a blunt instrument and fuels unnecessary fear and uncertainty for the millions of naturalized Americans.”

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submitted 8 months ago by WongKaKui@piefed.social to c/news@lemmy.world

Archived Link: https://archive.ph/PoyjC

A father and his 6-year-old son who were separated by immigration officials in New York City have been deported to China, weeks after their case drew outrage.

The child, Yuanxin Zheng, is among the youngest migrants in New York to be taken from a parent by Immigration and Customs Enforcement officials during a routine check-in. He and his father, Fei Zheng, who lived in Queens, were detained on Nov. 26; President Trump’s deportation crackdown has swept up increasing numbers of migrant families and children.

“We are happy to report we were able to remove the family back to their home country,” Ms. McLaughlin wrote in an email.

(okay pause wtf. "happy" someone getting sent to a country they fled? the fuck?)

“It is quite sad,” Ms. Spector said on Friday. “He came here wanting to give his son a different and better life than he might have had in China. That’s what they were coming for. And they had a lot to offer.”

Mr. Zheng told federal agents that he had come to America because he was afraid of being tortured in his native China.

Mr. Zheng does not have a criminal history, according to government records.

What a depressing story...

[-] WongKaKui@piefed.social 36 points 9 months ago

As a Chinese American, this resonates with me so much, I feel them. I've been through those similar footsteps as that kid, I was about the same age when I first got here, I was in second grade. But I've never been separated like that... I mean... I feel sad when I was in school, in an environment where almost nobody spoke my language (besides like a few classmates that were born here and grew up bilingual), and I felt alone, and my mother would pick me up from school like very late from the after school program that ran until 6PM, being separated from parents for just a few hours was already anxiery inducing enough, but this kid is now facing much worse than I ever did. I was also in NYC, so I can almost picture that scene... of being alone, and scared. I mean being separated like that, for extended period of time... who know how long this could be... must be terrifying, leaving your home country and trying to find a better life... only to get rejected by the country you are trying seeking help in.

My family are legal, I'm a US Citizen now, but still, imagine if this admin was in power back around 2010s when I first arrived and didn't have citizenship status... and on that topic, my dad is still not a citizen yet (English is hard for adults)... so um... we could still theoretically get separated at any moment if this admin tries anything... 👀

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submitted 9 months ago by WongKaKui@piefed.social to c/news@lemmy.world

ICE agents arrested a Chinese father and his 6-year-old son, separating the two and sending the father to Orange County Jail while the whereabouts of the son remain unknown as of Tuesday morning.

The father and son spent several weeks inside a family ICE detention center after they first entered the country and were released on parole in early summer. They were arrested again at an August ICE check-in and returned to Dilley Immigration Processing Center, a detention center for families with children, where the two had previously been held.

In September, at an immigration court hearing while they were detained, a judge administratively closed their asylum case, according to immigration court records. Under prior administrations, would have been seen as a positive step and indicated that DHS wasn’t actively seeking the person’s deportation.

And just over a month later, on Oct. 24, the father and son were released on a year-long parole, according to a copy of their DHS Immigration and Customs Enforcement parole document reviewed by THE CITY. They were required to return for an ICE check-in in early December, according to the document.

“ICE may also terminate parole on notice prior to the automatic termination date,” the document warned. “Parole is entirely within the discretion of ICE and can be terminated at any time and for any reason.”

Despite the uncertainty, the two were settling into life in New York City, living at a family shelter in Queens, while Yuanxin had started first grade at P.S. 166Q in Astoria, according to Spector.

Archived: https://archive.ph/jZjDm

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