yes, I'm not born in Poland and I didn't grow up speaking Polish though I'm learning it on-and-off, but I grew up with people proud of their Polish heritage and always ready to learn more about their heritage country so I consider myself to be Polish. I'm like 16% Spanish and mostly English :]

Don’t I know it…

My partner used to spend so much time with me but now he almost completely avoids me for his new boyfriend

True

He also doesn’t wanna keep up our selfie streak of sending photos to each other nor does he save my photos anymore (we talk on Snapchat) and I feel like once, if, he breaks up with his boyfriend he’s gonna crawl back to me

Also, all he does besides that is read yaoi or boys love so it further makes me wonder if he's just gay, IDK though, just speculation

I’m also sure most stoners and alcoholics care more about their partner than drugs and alcohol but he is a stoner and an alcoholic and never texts me even when he’s getting high or drunk like he used to, he just reads it but he texts his boyfriend all the time even when high/drunk

Do you think there’s any chance he doesn’t know he’s hurting me?

I feel like he only spent time with me because his boyfriend Alex wasn’t there. Like he cancelled plans to spend time with Alex from what I recall and once he couldn’t hang out, i was his second choice

Yeah… thank you :)

I will talk to him and see if we can schedule a hang out time

Also I told him I wanted to spend time with him and asked if I could and he said “Sure, if I’m not with Alex”

Thank you 🫂

!Labubu@lemmy.eco.br