Oh it's you lol yea I saw you in the modlog when I was perusing, that was davel pretty, much the #2 enforcer of .ml
I thought it was probably something along what you described and I wanted to make a post on !meanwhileongrad@sh.itjust.works on it, but there was really no way for me to tie it back in an evidentiary-way like I do for all my other posts
similar instances to block, and/or yet another alternative to Reddit/Lemmy.
Hexbear and grad are way worse than .ml, but also means .world defederates from them already (and a lot of the Threadiverse network)
As far as right-wing instances go, the most prominent one I think currently is HilariousChaos (HC is like ExplodingHeads reborn. They basically did a .ml and try to keep it more subtle (EH is to grad/hex as HC is to .ml)) that is also still federated with world last I checked
ETA: oh and also that was a site ban you got (the whole getting banned from every comm thing is actually a workaround for a federation bug)
So you win an award!

You can check bio for a listing of accounts used for the .ml boycott/crossposting campaign (with the exception of the lemy.lol account, it's been removed from rotation but I havent updated post yet)
Context:
Why am I cross-posting .ml content?
Reasons for multiple accounts