freeusething

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[–] freeusething@lemmynsfw.com 12 points 7 months ago (2 children)

Look at my instance and account ;)

[–] freeusething@lemmynsfw.com 30 points 7 months ago* (last edited 7 months ago) (7 children)

Not the person you asked, but the industry is horribly unethical. Pornhub hosted and made good money on CSAM.

Another aspect is the way things which are pretty intense and should only be happening in negotiated, BDSM contexts are presented as normal parts of sex. Choking is extremely fucking dangerous and really shouldn’t be done by anyone who doesn’t explicitly know what they are doing, but it’s treated as almost part of vanilla sex. Painful anal sex is treated as desirable.

I’ve had a lot of casual sex with men, and many many times these men have done things like spanked or choked me without consent, and I feel like in part that happens because it’s part of the sex script they learned from watching porn.

Also, so much of it seems to be from Eastern European countries where the women might be getting trafficked. You might recall that Andrew Tate’s grift, which he has passed on to others, was essentially forcing women to cam for him while he kept the money.

Like, I think porn can be done ethically. Conceivably, we could have a world where exhibitionists who are having fun are the only ones making porn - maybe if we had UBI and no one had to do it to survive. But that’s not the world we live in.

[–] freeusething@lemmynsfw.com 4 points 10 months ago

I wrote out a guide a while back which people seemed to appreciate.

Just put a little effort in it. If you want your dick to be admired, frame it in a way worth admiring.

[–] freeusething@lemmynsfw.com 7 points 10 months ago (4 children)

It’s not really that far removed from flashing someone if it’s unsolicited. And - even as a guy who loves dick pics - no one is going to be enticed by a poorly lit picture of your dick held up next to a monster can in your bathroom. (What the hell is with the “over the toilet shot”? So gross.)

[–] freeusething@lemmynsfw.com 3 points 10 months ago

My ELO is 6969

[–] freeusething@lemmynsfw.com 5 points 11 months ago (1 children)

Gonna be real with you chief -

Somebody should have probably stopped me from going to LoversLab as a teenager and seeing beastiality and necrophilia.

There’s a middle ground. While the government probably isn’t in the position to figure it out, the abundance of extreme porn that is completely accessible to kids is not good either.

[–] freeusething@lemmynsfw.com 11 points 1 year ago

This is why I like trains. If I time it right it just keeps going and going and going… one FWB ain’t enough

[–] freeusething@lemmynsfw.com 4 points 1 year ago

I’ve had an 11” before - like baby arm girth too. It’s absolutely physically taxing. Not just the “ouch” from cervix bumping but also there’s just something about big penises that make it feel like exercise. 9” is fun but it’s like I ran a marathon.

 

Assume that there’s no STIs involved. How comfortable would you be with a partner with numbers in the double digits? Triple digits?

When would be the appropriate time to share that kind of information?

[–] freeusething@lemmynsfw.com 1 points 1 year ago

I prefer getting fucked, not into head. It’s like using a fleshlight lol

[–] freeusething@lemmynsfw.com 2 points 1 year ago

Double trouble flaked but got two regulars, including my favorite. He was soooo gooodd

[–] freeusething@lemmynsfw.com 1 points 1 year ago (4 children)

I’ll see if number 2 and his friend want to.

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