Same. I only effectively use one monitor but occasionally I want to plug my laptop to another monitor. It is frankly ridiculous that we have all these monitors with HDR, hidpi, VRR and high refresh rates. We also have technologies to daisy chain them. And Linux, Wayland or not, basically doesn't support any configuration other than 1080p 60hz sdr everywhere or a single monitor.
At this rate we will be lucky if we can get one of these things well supported in the next ten years. Sometimes, I wonder if technology development rate will accelerate fast enough such that it will reach escape velocity with respect to Linux display development speed. It already feels like we have regressed, and I wonder if it will get worse.
I use gnome, and it has a lot of pain points:
Also the other pain point is how no one cares and how people are like.. well it works for me, or they don't care about stutters, or they say their distro and desktop environment is better, and blaming the user.