*nictitating

If protests worked they'd be illegal

I've been using OneDev. It's really easy to set up, kinda just works out of the box

I use it in a homelab, I don't need to apply prod/team/high-availability solutions to my Audiobookshelf or Mealie servers. If an upgrade goes wrong, I'll restore from backup. Honestly, in the handful of years I've been doing this, only one upgrade of an Immich container caused me trouble and I just needed to change something in the compose file and that was it.

I get using these strategies if you're hosting something important or just want to play with new shiny stuff but, in my humble opinion, any extra effort or innovating in a homelab should be spent on backups. It's all fun and games until your data goes poof!

Give me the angry downvote all you want but, you are administering a system, you are literally a sysadmin

Kopia doesn't get enough love, it's awesome

I've never had a Twitter account, but this makes me want to create one just so I can quit

That was a lot of words that, in no way, answered my question.

I've been looking around for notes apps with similar criteria with the addition of a portable format (markdown prferably) and, ideally, the ability to add images directly from the camera. I landed on GitJournal and backed it with a self-hosted Forgejo server, but this can be any git server. This has the benefit of requiring an ssh key pair for access

Oh look, a buzzword

pre-internet definition of meme

Jesus wept

Unpopular take: pain/discomfort is the only way nature can teach us what NOT to do until our brains can comprehend logic and consequence. Without the ability for a parent to cause pain or discomfort, the child (who has underdeveloped logic and concept of consequence) will percieve the parent as "that thing that makes angry noises but can't hurt me" and won't listen to them.

It's all fine and dandy to be "friends" with your kid, but you also need to be the judge, jury, and executioner too