those_who_wonder

joined 10 months ago
[โ€“] those_who_wonder@lemmy.blahaj.zone 5 points 10 months ago (1 children)

I appreciate your perspective ๐Ÿ™ I'm super scared it would ruin my marriage, which sucks because I am quite fond of my wife.

Wow what a great response thank you ๐Ÿ’œ

Thank you for that I needed it

[โ€“] those_who_wonder@lemmy.blahaj.zone 10 points 10 months ago (3 children)

at your age, it'll be much easier to come out if you have to.

Probably won't though on account of the whole "being a coward" thing lmfao

[โ€“] those_who_wonder@lemmy.blahaj.zone 32 points 10 months ago (2 children)

I am in the US so that sucks

 

I've gone my whole life (I'm 35) NOT thinking I was trans but now I do, wtf am I supposed to do with this? How do I find out for sure? Am I allowed to be a trans lesbian because I'm not attracted to men? Can I even come out, when it will ruin my whole life? I'm jealous of the youth, being old sucks.