The men who are successful with dating are already dating or active in places where they are finding better success than clubs and arranged dating events.
The men who are unsuccessful at dating are confused and wary about women, who are no longer the compliant trad-wife wannabes that these men were lead to expect exist in numbers by the likes of “manospherian” influencers like Peterson, Tate, et al.

Just tell her she won’t be so mad once that fuel becomes the barter commodity that sets you all up for the rest of your lived experience in the apocalypse! “Money in the bank, baby, money in the bank!"