Its so frustrating finding out about a symptom I'm struggling with, and I try to look it up and its all aimed at kids. Even if its all targeted at kids, those kids will grow up and become adults, and still have the same issues and I don't understand why.
I think you're right with the whole grow out of it thing. It fundamentally won't for any of my ND stuff, I will just get better over time at managing, but its hard to do that when there's no support. It's like the phrase "stop making autism your whole personality", no I cannot do that because fundamentally it affects everything.
TLDR: I agree and I hate how resources are aimed at NTs despite the fact that we are autonomous adults, and even then kids need to feel like you understand and aren't just talking at them.
Fair point, ty that is what is hard is hrt tends to be super specific per person, and then pcos is similar so was worried , but just finding good provider then sounds important