wander

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[–] wander@lemmy.blahaj.zone 1 points 1 year ago

Fair point, ty that is what is hard is hrt tends to be super specific per person, and then pcos is similar so was worried , but just finding good provider then sounds important

 

Hii I'm nonbinary but I do want to look more masc. But I recently found out I have PCOS (Its not 100% confirmed by my PCP still waiting to see gynecologist for more treatment + confirming for sure).

What I was wondering is does anyone else have experience doing T (I probably want to mircodose) with PCOS? I'm asking because I'm worried that now its not a possibility at all for me with how messed up my hormones have been and that once I get them stable doing T would mess with it all too much, and wanted to see if anyone has any ideas?

[–] wander@lemmy.blahaj.zone 6 points 1 year ago

Its so frustrating finding out about a symptom I'm struggling with, and I try to look it up and its all aimed at kids. Even if its all targeted at kids, those kids will grow up and become adults, and still have the same issues and I don't understand why.

I think you're right with the whole grow out of it thing. It fundamentally won't for any of my ND stuff, I will just get better over time at managing, but its hard to do that when there's no support. It's like the phrase "stop making autism your whole personality", no I cannot do that because fundamentally it affects everything.

TLDR: I agree and I hate how resources are aimed at NTs despite the fact that we are autonomous adults, and even then kids need to feel like you understand and aren't just talking at them.

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His name is Tux, I love him so much. 10/10 would recommend cats

[–] wander@lemmy.blahaj.zone 0 points 1 year ago

I think I might be wrong, but I personally say it blah ha. But I don't think this is how its meant to be said lol, like you said blo-hi is the one that I think? maybe is correct

[–] wander@lemmy.blahaj.zone 2 points 1 year ago (1 children)

This sounds like me so much. I was one of those kids who loved reading and was reading way above my level but couldn't write for shit. Same with the analog vs digital, doesn't matter how much I practice it still takes me a solid 30 seconds to do all the "math" in my head to read analog unless I use it regularly. I swear the more I hear from other neurodivergents, the more I go, wait a second...

[–] wander@lemmy.blahaj.zone 2 points 1 year ago

This is definitely making me go hmm. I am diagnosed with dyslexia (and so many other things), but I struggle so much with math. Weird part is it should have been picked up with testing, then again uh my very obvious autism and ADHD was missed so who knows.

Reading others comments here too helps since I really do struggle with math it feels like trying to juggle. I can do fine with a few, but some concepts just take out everything. It's to the point where I'm a computer science major, and I dropped down to a Bachelor's of Arts because I'm trying to avoid math as much as possible (I'm planning on doing web work so less heavy math)

Thank you for this post, maybe this was the last push I needed to see and go research more

[–] wander@lemmy.blahaj.zone 1 points 1 year ago

Yes! Oh this will be so much better as I really have been trying to make more my city mixed used centric but without that feature it is hard and ends up with more car centric design than I would like. I'm very excited to see all the changes