waterdog9

joined 1 year ago
[–] waterdog9@sh.itjust.works 1 points 1 year ago

Having kids later makes sense too - my MIL is almost 70 and my dad & FIL are 65, and we just had our first kid. I'm turning 30 next month so I'm still pretty average age but definitely not 18 like my grandma was for her first!

 

Does anyone have tips for breastfeeding while babywearing? I'd like to stop taking the baby out and then readjusting all the time (since she inevitably decides she's hungry as soon as she goes in the carrier).

I use both a stretchy wrap and a ring sling. The ring sling is okay enough while sitting down, but we have a regular hangout spot that I'm standing for 2hr.

[–] waterdog9@sh.itjust.works 2 points 1 year ago (2 children)

Definitely at least 2 generations in my family. I spent a lot of time at my grandparents houses as kids but they were not actually doing any childcare.

I think it also has to do with living further away from family becoming more normal. My parents swapped a lot of parenting time with my aunts & uncles - most of us lived within the same 3 town radius. I now live almost 5hr drive from my family so we can't just swing by Uncle's house for a few hours.

[–] waterdog9@sh.itjust.works 5 points 1 year ago

Definitely don't need streets to play. A couple paved areas for basketball, skating, etc is nice - but that's just a park.

[–] waterdog9@sh.itjust.works 2 points 1 year ago (1 children)

I'm stuck on that level of Baba is You as well. I'll inevitably come back and hit my head against the wall on it every few weeks.

[–] waterdog9@sh.itjust.works 3 points 1 year ago (1 children)

A stretchy wrap is great for newborns since they're often too small for a normal carrier even with an insert. Some brands make ones with buckles if you don't want to fiddle with tying it on every time. I use Boba but there's a bunch of similar brands at the same price point.

I hate to recommend reddit here, but scrolling through babywearing helped me a ton with figuring out what a safe carry looks like for a tiny baby.

[–] waterdog9@sh.itjust.works 4 points 1 year ago (3 children)

I'm on maternity leave and finally finished the extra levels in Opus Magnum this week after figuring out how to sit with the baby and still use both hands

[–] waterdog9@sh.itjust.works 2 points 1 year ago

Serious transport alternative is a good way to put it. We have a pedal-assist e-cargo bike and it's a game changer for mobility.

When I was pregnant, I was able to ebike to my doctor's appointments pretty much up until I gave birth. My husband uses it for most hardware store runs. Grocery trips for heavy items like cat litter, taking the dogs to the vet, the list goes on.

These are all possible on a non-e cargo bike (or normal bike + trailer) but realistically we would have defaulted to the car most times. Now we drive less than once a week.

[–] waterdog9@sh.itjust.works 2 points 1 year ago* (last edited 1 year ago)

This feels written in an AI generated voice as well though

  • all the semi-dramatic filler "Well, Valve had the last laugh", "That said, it wasn’t perfect", "And honestly?", etc
  • each paragraph has an intro, some content, and a conclusion
  • all the punctuation is grammatically correct

Plus, it uses a very generic argument about why everyone else is wrong for not liking the controller, even though from the comments here it's pretty clear the main reason is not having a d-pad

[–] waterdog9@sh.itjust.works 1 points 1 year ago

Just wanted to thank you for this post - my daughter is only a few weeks old but I've been tinkering with home assistant during pregnancy and adding smart plugs to appliances seems like a great move when she gets more mobile

[–] waterdog9@sh.itjust.works 4 points 1 year ago

They actually did something similar when creating Sesame Street (and I think Blues Clues); the main difference being the goal was to make the educational parts the most attention grabbing, so kids with parents who just plop them in front of the TV would be more prepared for school.

[–] waterdog9@sh.itjust.works 4 points 1 year ago* (last edited 1 year ago)

Ah, another ad disguised as an article. I understand the average person doesn't know how to do bike maintenance and would need to learn about pumps, patch kits, etc; but saying "no one told me I'd also need" a helmet and a bike lock is kinda ridiculous.

[–] waterdog9@sh.itjust.works 5 points 1 year ago* (last edited 1 year ago)

A few years ago I'd recommend Gaia, but it's gone downhill ever since the acquisition. Komoot or onX Backcountry may have what you're looking for. Caltopo is great for maps, but it's less user-friendly and doesn't have curated content.

What exactly do they even do

fwiw hosting, moderating, and curating the community content, plus maintaining a cross-platform app with a fairly polished UI is not free

(source: I work for somewhat of a competitor and I like paying my bills)

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