On my last post there were 3 comments from remote instances which were posted 2 days ago. They only appeared for me on this instance a few hours ago. I could see them on another account from a different instance before that.
Edit: also the upvotes jumped up simultaneously. Seems like everything was federated correctly from this instance, but had trouble federating back until today
Thanks. Really sucks that cloudflare is basically holding our data hostage :c
Hi, is there any update on this?
I hope you too will find some ways for yourself to not get abused through it. Always remember that your consent comes first, no matter what the rest of your body says in the moment
For me, no. It's hard to archive because of the testosterone blockers. And doing a good session of heavy impact play will relax me more than an orgasm ever will anyways.
It obviously looks like a direct cause, but it's quite irrelevant in my case
Honestly, there isn't one. Especially as a man. We have this concept of "chasers", basically creeps that fetishize and mistreat trans women, and every way to ask this makes you look like one. You could maybe put this into your dating profile or be very upfront about it, but that also will reduce your chances of success
I'd definitely say >75% still have one. Many more than that want a surgery, but most can't get one due to the costs
Oh definitely. I'm living the best life out here. Everything bad that can happen is just a stepping stone to the future and you'll learn from it for later
Well, I'm a trans woman. Most people I date are trans woman. If you take testosterone blockers as part of a hormone feminization therapy you are going to inevitably loose some penile functionality. So penetrative sex is not very usual for me. But I prefer doing BDSM activities way more anyways. Due to that sex doesn't really end with somebody cumming, but whenever everybody is too exhausted to continue instead.
Overall I would consider that comparatively unusual, especially the kind of kinks that make up most of it
Supersaurus, because....
L O N G B O I
They originally got me into Mastodon as a federated service. I later fled Reddit and stumbled upon Lemmy as an alternative and really liked the Fediverse aspects of it. I recommended it to others and mentioned I had made that switch a few times, so some of my friends tried it out too and made accounts.
I know some still use it rarely and I know they know my account, so I didn't want to run that risk of posting this on my main
Thank you so much for your hard work ❤️