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I have 2 therapists and was going to a lot of sex parties, still wanted an SO.
Wtf, is a sex party? You meant orgy
I guess? I mean, I go to a venue, get a drink or two, meet my friends, by now I'm probably already undressed, then we have sex, with whoever I feel comfortable with. In the meantime there are at least 60 other people in the venue doing their own thing, BDSM shit, sex, whatever floats their boat. Really nice vibe, everyone is respectful, consent is important.
Its been really nice going to these things.
I wish I could find that kind of party around where I live
Look for BDSM munches, in which sex doesn't (usually) happen but people talk about BDSM and hooking up. When the right people like and trust you, the party invites follow.