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Off My Chest

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Thought that I would start off my first post in this place by getting this off my chest. In case anyone is wondering why more people haven't flocked to Lemmy yet, this has been my experience so far.

Last night I decided to give this place a shot and sign up, just to be met with a join page that was mostly unresponsive and didn't want to load anything. I ended up giving up and going to bed but thankfully by the morning, the web page had listed the possible servers for me to join.

So, especially after my experience the night before, I thought that the server that has in its description "recommended for users to join this server to reduce load" was a good start.

Then it came to looking for apps. I thought that the app with the description "made by Lemmy devs" would pair well with the server recommended to new users. Only to find that the server that I joined isn't even listed in the app when I try to sign in. And that manually typing it does nothing but give "server error" responses as well.

So now here I am, typing this from my laptop, wondering how many other people try to join this platform and give up after the first couple of hoops that need jumping through first. I'm hoping that eventually I will find the right server and app combo to give me an actual complete, working experience but so far my experience here has been a little bit ridiculous.

Anyway, glad I got that off my chest. Hi Lemmy, just a Reddit refugee hoping to make a home here, once I've got this absolute circus of trying to get going here in the first place behind me.

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[–] dis_honestfamiliar@lemmy.sdf.org 4 points 2 days ago (2 children)

Posted on Lemmy.world from lemmy.myserv.one. very cool.

[–] Zero22xx@lemmy.myserv.one 5 points 2 days ago (3 children)

Is this something that's incorrect to do around here? From what I can tell, myserv.one has one single community and the whole deal is that you're supposed to able to access anything from there? Although I've already come across a post suggesting that there's some sort of server wars going on around here so I'm starting to wonder if this is actually the place for me. I just want to post and talk shit, not worry about the url I'm coming from or tip toe around in case I stumble into some war that I know nothing about.

No. Not at all. You said first post, so I thought it was kinda cool. Anything else I wanted to say... Well This sums it up.

[–] clmbmb@lemmy.dbzer0.com 8 points 2 days ago

Is this something that’s incorrect to do around here?

No. It's exactly the point of federation.

No, it is absolutely fine.

You make an account on an instance and this is your home instance then you'll be able to interact with other instances like you are doing now as long as the server you joined hasn't banned an instance.

Ignore all the drama and use the block function liberally for shit you dont care about and you'll soon be able to tailor your experience to more of what you want to see and chat shit about.

Once you get your head around what is going on it really isnt too complex, it is just the initial experience that can be a little confusing I guess.

[–] GlendatheGayWitch@lemmy.world 2 points 2 days ago (2 children)

How can you tell what instance they are posting from? Is that visible on some apps?

[–] TherapyGary@lemmy.blahaj.zone 3 points 2 days ago

This is how usernames are displayed on Eternity

(no downvotes bc of my instance (blahaj) btw)

1000007666

Voyager shows it, if you click on their username.