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[–] pelespirit@sh.itjust.works 174 points 16 hours ago (11 children)

Having them pointed towards lemmy.ml is a little concerning.

[–] grue@lemmy.world 30 points 11 hours ago

To be fair, it was apparently posted in r/anarchocommunism, so I'd just chalk it up to knowing your audience. At least it was just .ml, and not grad or hexbear!

[–] guaraguaito@lemmy.blahaj.zone 66 points 16 hours ago (2 children)

I made an alternative linking to lemm.ee

because in general this is a good flyer

[–] cm0002@lemmy.world 37 points 15 hours ago (1 children)

We should do a bunch of them with varying non-Tankie instances

Like programming.dev or lemmy.blahaj.zone

Or maybe even better, have a small table at the bottom with their focuses

[–] guaraguaito@lemmy.blahaj.zone 34 points 15 hours ago* (last edited 15 hours ago) (2 children)

Yeah. join-lemmy.org unfortunately isn’t great because it often points to random semi dead instances.

Something like,

The instance you join doesn’t matter much — because you can access all content no matter what instance you are on — but it can be nice to be on an instance that shares you interests and values, because you will have to conform to the rules of that instance. Think of it like your clan — it’s like your email being yourname@yourworkplace — you can still email everyone else and see their emails, but it signals something about you, and it has different rules.

Here are a couple options:

General Purpose:

  • discuss.online (hosted US)
  • lemm.ee
  • lemmy.cafe
  • sh.itjust.works (hosted Canada)

Interests:

  • mander.xyz (Science)
  • programming.dev (Programming)
  • infosec.pub (Cybersecurity)
  • lemmynsfw.com (Porn)

Diversity:

  • lemmy.blahaj.zone (LGBTQ+)

Regions/Langauges:

  • jlai.lu (French)
  • feddit.org (German)
  • lemmy.ca (Canada)
  • aussie.zone (Australia)

Ideology:

  • lemmy.dbzer0.com (Anarchism and Piracy)
  • slrpnk.net (Environmentalist Leftists)
  • lemmy.ml (Authoritarian Leftists)

Please copypaste my comment and add instances / improve it

[–] Blaze@lemmy.dbzer0.com 24 points 15 hours ago (3 children)

I like the idea, but people have said several times that choosing an instance is a barrier for them.

I usually go with

"Lemmy has 42k monthly active users

Feel free if you have any questions"

[–] leraje@lemmy.blahaj.zone 2 points 5 hours ago

I mean, why not go totally targeted? If there are people here who still have reddit accounts then tailor the graphic for the sub you post in. If its an lgbtqia+ sub, suggest Blahaj, if its a tech sub suggest programming.dev, if its a piracy or data hoarder sub db0 etc etc.

[–] guaraguaito@lemmy.blahaj.zone 9 points 15 hours ago (1 children)

Yeah I think I elaborated too much. Let’s just keep recommending small instances — because the current centralisation on world sucks.

[–] jaybone@lemmy.world 6 points 13 hours ago (5 children)

I’ve been thinking of switching instances.

But I think part of the problem is the domain names on so many instances are so odd. Lemmy.world is very clean and easy to tell someone verbally, as opposed to say sopudi.xvz or dbzer0 or blahaj.zone.

I suppose “discuss.online” isn’t such a bad name. And “midwest.social” but people who are not in the Midwest might not feel like they identify with that geographically.

[–] guaraguaito@lemmy.blahaj.zone 2 points 2 hours ago

lemmy.cafe, lemmy.zip, lemmy.one

[–] Irelephant@lemm.ee 1 points 1 hour ago
[–] Alk@sh.itjust.works 2 points 5 hours ago

Didn't even mention mine. For a brand new user, they don't know what the fuck is going on there.

[–] Serinus@lemmy.world 5 points 12 hours ago (1 children)

Lemmy.world is also the most reliable and the smoothest experience.

I strongly have the opposite opinion. Let people start on Lemmy.World and once they have experience (like you), they can move to where they want.

They're an actual non-profit org out of the Netherlands with professional hosting.

Federation is a feature like divorce is a feature. It's extremely important that it exists and is accessible. Not everybody needs to do it. Other servers are a fine option if you know what you're doing and are willing to deal with more issues OR if there's a compelling reason (such as the various regional servers).

When federation between lemm.ee and lemmy.world is behind by an hour or two, where do you think users will have a better experience? When 90% of their content is now a couple hours older, that's a worse experience.

And spreading people out doesn't really fix anything. It just puts more stress on federation technology. If you spread out all the users, Federation becomes a much harder to manage many to many relationship between all the servers, instead of primarily being a one to many relationship.

In short, if you spread out the users equally, suddenly every instance begins to have federation issues with each other, and everyone has a worse experience. With a bigger "main" instance, the majority of users are less affected by federation issues, and the issues are less common.

The regional servers have more of a balance here. 90% of their content may be old, but the 10% they are up to date with are the things closest to them, most important to them, and maybe in their language.

I do appreciate having several general use instances. I just don't want to send newbies there who will generalize their experience to all of Lemmy and the Fediverse.

[–] Blaze@lemmy.dbzer0.com 3 points 11 hours ago

Lemmy.world is also the most reliable and the smoothest experience.

Using a Lemmy version so dated they can't remove their uploaded media

And spreading people out doesn’t really fix anything.

Lemm.ee has 3600 monthly active users. SJW 2500. The 17000 users of LW could be spread across other instances without issues.

With a bigger “main” instance, the majority of users are less affected by federation issues, and the issues are less common.

With a bigger main instance, the mods of that instance have a tendency to power trip:

If you want the rest of the platform to trust you, be responsible. This is not Reddit, power trips will be called out.

[–] _haha_oh_wow_@sh.itjust.works 4 points 14 hours ago (1 children)

I think I have seen your posts on reddit before haha

[–] Blaze@lemmy.dbzer0.com 4 points 13 hours ago (1 children)
[–] Irelephant@lemm.ee 1 points 1 hour ago

Wait, are you u/blazealt?

[–] Kecessa@sh.itjust.works 1 points 9 hours ago

But it's not true that your instance doesn't matter and you can see everything no matter your instance...

[–] Allonzee@lemmy.world 16 points 12 hours ago* (last edited 12 hours ago) (3 children)

Capitalism destroyed our government, captured our constitution, and is literally ending the world (for humans, don't worry it'll be fine in a few million years and it'll be like we never existed, thank goodness for that).

I find comedy in people likely here due to the greed rot of Spez wanting to go public and now fondling billionaire balls still, here on Lemmy like digital refugees in the wake of capitalism breaking promises to and destroying a community to increase private profit, going "ewww commies and socialists."

Credit where it's due, the capitalist's Orwell game is God tier.

[–] Serinus@lemmy.world 11 points 12 hours ago

.ml would be worse than Reddit if they had the same number of users.

[–] Sakychu@lemmy.world 9 points 12 hours ago

No, we are going "ewww tankies"

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[–] cm0002@lemmy.world 23 points 15 hours ago

More than a little concerning, it's happened plenty of times before. People see that BS on the Tankie Triad and then leave thinking Lemmy is just a bunch of tankies

Sometimes they try another non-Tankie instance and realize that we're not all like that, but I'm sure a majority never return always thinking that all of Lemmy is "that Tankie hangout" or worse, a Voat 2.0

[–] StarvingMartist@sh.itjust.works 7 points 13 hours ago

Whatever, infighting gets us nowhere , down with the big bad

[–] DonAntonioMagino@feddit.nl 17 points 16 hours ago (8 children)

I'm not very into Lemmy, what's so bad about lemmy.ml?

[–] cm0002@lemmy.world 51 points 16 hours ago

They're part of the Tankie Triad who deny the human rights violations of the CCP and hold them up as the gold standard.

Basically Authoritarian bootlickers pretending to not be authoritarians

[–] pelespirit@sh.itjust.works 20 points 16 hours ago (1 children)

It's controversial. It was created by the creators of Lemmy and has some techbro feelings about a lot of stuff. I'm not trying to start an .ml fight, I'm against pushing for any particular instance.

I would recommend new users to stay away from the biggest ones and steer towards one level down. You want enough communities and instances to line your front page, but the big ones are big enough. Let's spread the load.

[–] Telorand@reddthat.com 5 points 16 hours ago (2 children)

I don't think you need any communities to line your front page until you get subscriptions going. I think going a level down from the biggest ones is still too big and will still lead to giant instances as they inevitably grow over time. Same with putting practically all the communities on lemmy.world or lemmy.ml.

That's concentrating a lot of people and content in a handful of places, and slightly-less-centralized is still effectively centralized. No instance admins should have that much power.

[–] pelespirit@sh.itjust.works 10 points 15 hours ago (2 children)

I was referencing to when I signed up for Lemmy. I really missed the front page of r/ and was looking for that. I didn't realize that the default would be so dead and also, I was on a really small instance, so the page was suuuuper dead since nothing was referenced yet. People can switch to smaller, but we don't want to overwhelm them or make it look way worse populated than it is. I get your concern, but that's why I recommend it to be mid level. You may not care if your front page is dead, but the newbies do.

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[–] imaqtpie@sh.itjust.works 4 points 15 hours ago (1 children)

No matter what advice you give people, they're still basically going to do what they want. Many will prefer to join larger servers, and some will always prefer smaller ones.

Honestly I think we should worry way less about this, because Lemmy is FOSS and we have enough solid instances already. People will naturally find their way and if larger instances get power drunk, people will leave. We don't need to try to orchestrate and fine tune what instances people use. Let them do what they want, and trust that the decentralized and redundant federated structure will function as intended.

It should only come into play if large instances actually can't keep up with their userbase growth from a technological standpoint. But again that problem solves itself because they can just close sign ups.

[–] pelespirit@sh.itjust.works 10 points 15 hours ago (7 children)

and if larger instances get power drunk, people will leave.

Will they though? I've seen people wanting to leave the bigger ones and don't know how to transfer all of their subs and stuff.

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[–] A_Union_of_Kobolds@lemmy.world 18 points 16 hours ago (2 children)

It's a tankie instance. "ML" as in Marxism-Leninism.

[–] guaraguaito@lemmy.blahaj.zone 10 points 15 hours ago (1 children)

and in practice they are more MLM (maoism) or MLS (stalinism).

[–] A_Union_of_Kobolds@lemmy.world 3 points 13 hours ago

Yeah if they were run of the mill Marxists it'd be one thing, but it's an authoritarian mess

[–] marine_mustang@sh.itjust.works 6 points 14 hours ago (2 children)

And here I was thinking it was just a cheap ccTLD to use.

[–] TheBat@lemmy.world 3 points 9 hours ago (1 children)

I think that's TLD for Malaysia?

[–] marine_mustang@sh.itjust.works 3 points 8 hours ago

That’s what I thought until I looked it up recently! .my is Malaysia, .ml is Mali.

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