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Keeping the weekly post warm until @alyaza comes back ๐Ÿ™‚

What's everyone been up to? Any plans for the weekend?

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[โ€“] rozwud@beehaw.org 3 points 1 year ago (1 children)

Depending on what y'all are thinking for your wedding, you could always book a location that wouldn't typically be considered a wedding venue, since those won't book up as fast. I've had a couple of friends get married in mountain picnic areas, for instance.

[โ€“] Crotaro@beehaw.org 1 points 1 year ago (1 children)

Mhmm, unfortunately we're looking to book castle ruins and even if they're not super typical wedding locations, they're still very expensive x.x

[โ€“] rozwud@beehaw.org 2 points 1 year ago (1 children)

Ah, yeah that definitely complicates things! I hope you're able to get your dream wedding, even if it's further down the line than you'd originally planned.

[โ€“] Crotaro@beehaw.org 1 points 1 year ago

Thanks, it'll probably work out, since we both make not bad sums of money. We're not rich by any means, but going from growing up in families that almost always were in the red to suddenly almost always having to tick the second or third highest income bracket in public surveys is a big step up. It just sucks how expensive everything is, not just weddings; even with our combined income, no children (two dogs, though, to be completely fair) and saving up for years, we'll only be able to afford a very narrow slice on the housing market (think stuff built in the 1950s and in need of heavy renovations).