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[-] varden@lemmy.world 100 points 1 year ago* (last edited 1 year ago)
  • Twink - a thin, mostly bodyhairless gay man
  • Twunk - a muscly, mostly bodyhairless gay man
  • Bear - a hairy, thicker gay man
  • Otter - a thinner but still hairy gay man
  • J/O - jerk off
  • Frot - touching two penises together, usually while j/o with each other
  • Top - the person who is topping is the person penetrating
  • Bottom - same but is instead the person being penetrated
  • Verse - likes being both top and bottom
  • Side - I'm less familiar with this one but given the quotes and context I'm assuming this is not a top or a bottom or a verse, but instead is someone less interested in penetration and more interested in body contact and j/o together. *
[-] Beacon@fedia.io 29 points 1 year ago

So he wants a man who's either thin, muscular, or neither, and who's also hairy, hairless, or neither. Sooooo, that's every man

[-] communism@lemmy.ml 33 points 1 year ago* (last edited 1 year ago)

He doesn't mention bears. He says he's looking for a twink or twunk and is an otter himself. So sounds like he wants a hairless guy who's either thin or muscly.

[-] Anivia@feddit.org 11 points 1 year ago

I agree with your observations about the hairy or hairless part, but thin or muscular are not the only 2 body types men can have. You can be fat and not muscular, I heard it's a pretty common body type in America

[-] Beacon@fedia.io 1 points 1 year ago

That's the "or neither" part of my comment

[-] funkless_eck@sh.itjust.works 10 points 1 year ago

Side just means no penetration. Usually it means ok with oral, manual and frotting. You can indicate both (vers, side ok) to indicate you don't mind someone who isn't into penetration.

[-] ShinkanTrain@lemmy.ml 9 points 1 year ago

I think the first 2 or 4 have heavy gay culture connotations, but can be adapted to mean any man.

[-] user224@lemmy.sdf.org 1 points 1 year ago

And I thought otter was referring to the specie of their fursona.

Oh well.

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