Real man here, in my 37 years on this earth I have found while there are generic traits that commonly is seen as attractive, there is no unified standard for what every person considers attractive.

Some people prefer a partner who is in shape, others enjoy a partner who is overweight.

I have even noticed that my own opinion can be very diverse with regards to what I find attractive or not.

But what I generally classify as being unattractive is when a person is a bully, that fact turns a 10+ to a -10 in my mind.