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[-] tornavish@lemmy.cafe 88 points 9 months ago

The student's mother was sentenced to nearly four years in prison for child neglect and federal weapons charges.

You are responsible for your child. Until they are 18, they are an extension of you. You programmed them. No excuses.

[-] manxu@piefed.social 46 points 9 months ago

I sense that "child neglect" and "federal weapons" chargess mean there was at least one gun fast and loose and loaded in the house. That sounds like a powder keg waiting to explode in any case.

[-] Darkassassin07@lemmy.ca 23 points 9 months ago

Yeah; a 6 year old will play with anything they get their hands on, you sure as hell don't leave a gun where they can get it. Especially with ammunition available...

[-] Zak@lemmy.world 30 points 9 months ago

The Wikipedia article about this case suggests the kid knew what the gun was. He threatened to shoot another student, and probably shot the teacher intentionally. This isn't just a case of a kid randomly playing with a gun.

Of course he's not criminally responsible for that because he's six, but he probably needs an intensive intervention to make sure he doesn't turn into a monster.

[-] Goretantath@lemmy.world 16 points 9 months ago

Yeah, those parents def fucked them up bad..

[-] echodot@feddit.uk 1 points 9 months ago

I suspect that's what the gun charges are for. Proper gun etiquette is not to keep the damn thing loaded.

[-] DarkAri@lemmy.blahaj.zone -1 points 9 months ago* (last edited 9 months ago)

I had my first two guns in my room when I was 6, but that was the 90s. I wasn't allowed to play with them for the first few weeks until my parents were sure that I knew how to handle them safely. This was a time before the internet though and people didn't really have these concepts of guns being some evil and super dangerous thing. A gun is only really dangerous in the hands of a bad person or someone who doesn't know how to handle them properly. Where I grew up it was just considered a fact of life. The younger you could get kids out in the woods hunting the better. I would bring home squirrels and rabbits to eat when I was like 7-8 years old. This was just the norm for most of human history but modern humans have lost touch with these things.

The only thing my dad really taught me was to check a gun every time I picked it up, to never assume it was unloaded. To make sure I knew what was behind what I was shooting, so I didn't shoot someone's house, and to keep it unchambered until I need to use it. Those 3 basic rules were good enough for me. I knew they were dangerous and to not play with them too much.

[-] lmmarsano@lemmynsfw.com 5 points 9 months ago

You mean they don't sell loaded guns to 6-year-olds? America: land of the free. 😞

It's 2025 and people still think age discrimination is ok

[-] ryven@lemmy.dbzer0.com 35 points 9 months ago

This doesn't jive with my life experience at all. If my family could have "programmed" me, I would have turned out very differently. Also all my siblings are wildly different people.

The development of living beings is a messy process and there are significant uncontrollable elements.

[-] SoloCritical@lemmy.world 10 points 9 months ago

Is leaving your gun lying around where a 6 year old can acquire and use it to shoot someone one of those sinifificant uncontrollable elements?

[-] LillyPip@lemmy.ca 9 points 9 months ago

No, because the existence of some uncontrollable elements doesn’t erase all the controllable elements.

This woman did something very wrong and controllable, which is why she’s in prison.

[-] echodot@feddit.uk 2 points 9 months ago

Sure but neglected child is always going to turn out worse than one that was properly loved and taken care of. You can't just go oh well child psychology is complicated, so let's just ignore the parents responsibilities.

[-] tornavish@lemmy.cafe 2 points 9 months ago

Nothing fits into a perfect box, but if you breed you are responsible for the outcome until 18 regardless. If you think your kid might shoot someone… it’s your job to prevent that.

Not everyone is qualified to be a parent.

[-] anon_8675309@lemmy.world 6 points 9 months ago

“Breed”

Getting a clearer picture now.

[-] tornavish@lemmy.cafe -4 points 9 months ago

Do you? Or do you just want to feel a certain way?

[-] fodor@lemmy.zip 5 points 9 months ago

Nobody knows how parenthood will turn out, my friend. Nobody is qualified to decide who is qualified... Good.

[-] tornavish@lemmy.cafe -1 points 9 months ago

I agree. And if it ends up that you weren’t qualified, that might be a jail sentence. Good.

[-] KairuByte@lemmy.dbzer0.com 1 points 9 months ago

A six year old is very unlikely to fully grasp what they are doing, and a parent wouldn’t necessarily “think their kid might shoot someone”.

[-] tornavish@lemmy.cafe -1 points 9 months ago

Yes I agree. However, a six-year-old child does not randomly get the idea to take a gun to school and shoot a teacher. They get it from somewhere. They may not fully understand, but that doesn’t matter. I’m just happy that parent is in jail. I hope they do not get released early, and I hope they do not ever get to be that child guardian again

[-] Lemminary@lemmy.world -1 points 9 months ago

I guess it depends on the household. I could say my mom did a great job at educating us. My siblings, mom, and I hold very similar values.

[-] anon_8675309@lemmy.world 16 points 9 months ago

“You programmed them”?

Really? That’s an extremely naive take.

[-] Fedizen@lemmy.world 5 points 9 months ago* (last edited 9 months ago)

If it was her gun (which it was), yeah this makes sense. If the gun was instead found in a trash can or something? idk its a wild world.

[-] tornavish@lemmy.cafe 3 points 9 months ago

If one is to reach for the most unlikely thing to happen to base their opinion on, then I suppose that you have a point.

[-] KairuByte@lemmy.dbzer0.com 2 points 9 months ago

If you want to be pedantic, I suppose “got the gun from another kid” is more reasonable?

[-] tornavish@lemmy.cafe -1 points 9 months ago

If the case was that this kid got the gun from another kid Who got the gun from home: The kid who pulled the trigger, and the weapons dealer, all of their parents should be put in jail. All of their parents Should not be able to be guardians of another child in the future.

It is always the parents’s fault.

[-] KairuByte@lemmy.dbzer0.com 2 points 9 months ago

This seems overly knee jerky. So if good parents have a kid who shoots a teacher, with a gun that came from another kid at school, those good parents should go to jail?

You realize six isn’t old enough to know what they are truly doing. They don’t grasp life vs death, they would likely not even see “shooting the teacher” as anything more than play before they did it. It’s exactly for this reason that we don’t hold children accountable in the same way we do adults.

Are there outliers? Absolutely. But to just make a blanket statement that every adult involved should go to jail is an extreme I just can’t agree with.

[-] tornavish@lemmy.cafe -1 points 9 months ago

Please teach your children that if another child hands them a firearm in school, to not take that firearm and deliberately shoot the teacher. I think that’s parenting 101

I am perfectly fine with the child being put in jail, but I think you would probably disagree with that.

Yes, I realize that six is not old enough to know what they are truly doing… But that does not excuse the parents. That’s the whole thing I’m saying. This is my opinion. There are zero things you can do to change my mind. It is perfectly fine that you disagree with my opinion, I don’t disrespect you for not sharing my opinion.

[-] KairuByte@lemmy.dbzer0.com 3 points 9 months ago

My dude, if you think telling a kid not to do something means they won’t do it, you’re obviously not a parent.

You can’t reasonably assume a kid isn’t going to do something at six. Even if you’ve told them not to do that thing every day of their life. It’s why child locks exist. It’s why kids end up in the hospital every day.

In a perfect world you could just type out on a keyboard “Johnny isn’t allowed to go in the pool area without an adult” and he’d listen. in the real world Johnny wants the ball, and it’ll be real quick, and mommy is busy, and he’s bringing the dog that counts, and oh shit Johnny drowned.

[-] tornavish@lemmy.cafe 1 points 9 months ago

My homie, Telling a child not to steal bubblegum from the store, or open that cabinet, or pull the dogs’s tail… Are all things I would expect a child to ignore

I agree that six years old is really too young to expect them to understand anything… Which is why, when something serious like this happens… The parents have to be punished.

We can keep arguing forever. This is how I feel, and I respect that you feel the way you feel and I have no interest in trying to convince you to feel the way I feel. Please understand that there is zero possibility that I, at this point in my life, I’m going to change my opinion about humanity.

[-] Fedizen@lemmy.world 1 points 9 months ago

I know a kid who as a teenager beat his mom with his fists, the problem with the "parents are always in control of their kids" idea is its a fantasy. At some point you will end up blaming a victim.

Reasonable precautions should always be made: gun safes, therapy, etc. Kids frequently are smarter or dumber or nicer or meaner than their parents and its always gonna be that way.

[-] tornavish@lemmy.cafe 1 points 9 months ago

I don’t remember anyone saying that parents are always in control of their children? If I am driving a car and I let go of the wheel… It is going to crash.

Please, take some time to come up with another bullshit excuse to justify your feelings

[-] Sunflier@lemmy.world 3 points 9 months ago

If the gun was instead found in a trash can or something?

That's what a jurry would consider after both sides have made their case.

[-] VM_Abrantes@lemmy.world 1 points 9 months ago

I guess this is my sign to start dumpster diving

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