Women of Ask Lemmy, what are your thoughts on this phrase, "if the bra and panties match, you weren't the one who decided to have sex tonight." (lemmy.world)

submitted 8 months ago by Dalacos@lemmy.world to c/asklemmy@lemmy.world

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Had a 'big sis' friend tell my naive and timid ass that saying a couple decades ago. Got reminded of it (not like that) today and had a chuckle.

For context, if a woman is wearing matching bra and panties it's likely she knew you'd be seeing them later that night.

So, I'm curious, you think it's true? Any other thoughts?

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[-] 200ok@lemmy.world 27 points 8 months ago

Everything is so expensive now. If it doesn't have stains or holes I'm counting it as a matching set.

[-] Dalacos@lemmy.world 8 points 8 months ago

If it doesn’t have stains or holes I’m counting it as a matching set.

lol

I never thought I'd get into thrift shopping. Now I regularly visit a couple local thrift shops and have gotten some pretty decent finds. (Which excites me more than it probably should. Being an adult is not what I expected. lé sigh )

[-] 200ok@lemmy.world 5 points 8 months ago

This is a great idea. ~~Some~~ most of my favorite undergarments aren't made anymore and all the new stuff is so uncomfortable.

[-] Witchfire@lemmy.world 5 points 8 months ago* (last edited 8 months ago)

Honestly, underwear with fart holes is the most comfortable. It's good to keep a pair or two of shitty underwear around anyways for when you don't want to risk ruining a nice pair

[-] ComfortableRaspberry@feddit.org 6 points 8 months ago

I imagine some day I'll have enough space for a period drawer with all the comfy stained panties too wear while having bad PMS and periods. Someday!

[-] 200ok@lemmy.world 1 points 8 months ago

Practical. I love it.

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