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A 30-year old woman hanging out with people who are 20-29?
That's extremely predatory, especially with the 29 year olds. A 29 year old is basically just a child, and at the age of 30, she should be well aware of that, despite the coma. It's creepy and gross for a 30 year old to hang out with a 29 year old. In fact, once you turn 30, you should probably never speak to or look at anyone even slightly younger than yourself, just to be safe. Be sure to say goodbye to any younger siblings before your 30th birthday -- you won't be seeing them for a while. Personally, a 30 year old tried to hang out with me once while I was 29, and it was absolutely devastating. I'm still in therapy because of that, even a decade afterwards. My therapist says I'm making great progress! However, she's 33 and I'm 39, and my birthday is just about a week from now, so obviously I won't be able to go back to therapy for the next 7 years or so.
THIS. If you are 50 and you talk to a 49 year old, Chris Hansen is gonna show up to your house disguised as a pizza delivery person.
Don't do it!
Ah, I see you speak from experience.
She looked old for her age!