PieFed dev Rimu bans user from Matrix (lemmy.nz)

submitted 3 months ago by Deceptichum@quokk.au to c/yepowertrippinbastards@lemmy.dbzer0.com

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Which mods/admins were being Power Tripping Bastards?
Rimu

What sanction did they impose (e.g. community ban, instance ban, removed comment)?

Kicking from all Matrix PieFed rooms

Explain why you think its unfair and how you would like the situation to be remedied.

Rimu has been manufacturing non-stop drama for weeks. He ignores multiple offers from multiple parties to de-escalate, and now he bans someone for trying to promote non-discriminatory language. He has also now cut off a PieFed admin from any and all support and ability to contribute to the software.

Oh and the real kicker ? Rimu did all this after his big grand post about how he is stepping back from drama and hiding away from users.

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[-] curbstickle@anarchist.nexus 2 points 3 months ago

This isn't meant as a "gotcha", but in this paragraph about not drawing a line, you drew a line. You decided aardvark was obviously too far, and that that PR should be rejected. How you feel about aardvark is how most of us already feel about the word "stupid".

It was meant as a random word that there is no known issue around. One that there aren't years worth of discussions about, one that if you search you aren't going to get page after page of links discussing. Thats it.

I think most people (in this community, on this thread) are not pro hurting people.

I agree!

What I feel is more like: if you are hurt by the word "stupid", or self-identify as stupid, you should not.

If someone is so impacted that they'd like to see a word not being used, I don't think "But you shouldn't feel that way" is helpful.

If course it's a squishy grey area, but if I found the word aardvark offensive because some kids called me aardvark at school growing up or something and bullied me, that's tragic, and it's very real for hypothetical me, but that's something I should work through in therapy, rather than something I should make the concern of everyone around me.

Completely individualized example, not broad usage, wouldn't really apply. That said - I would hope that the people around that hypothetical person would absolutely avoid the word "aardvark" if it was triggering for that person. Wouldn't you? Would you just say "aardvark" randomly to a person who was teased for years?

If anything, and I'm stepping in bees again, it feels kind of egocentric to see someone write "replies are stupid" in their own code, in response to presumably their opinion about a standard or spec or something, and to see they've written that and think "this is about me".

Its a function used in the identification of low effort posts, absolutely nothing to do with self identification and everything to do with identifying the comments of others as, in this case, "stupid". Its not about a spec or a standard. Its quite specifically and literally identifying user comments as "stupid".

And let's circle back to the main point here, which is pretty straightforward - is even discussing the idea of a word being offensive to some a reason to ban someone?

I would say quite obviously it isn't, and yet it is what rimu did here.

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