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i can't move on but i feel it's my fault if he abuses me or bullies me for it. (thelemmy.club)

submitted 1 month ago by may_be@thelemmy.club to c/goodoffmychest@lemmy.world

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idk if i can move on. i see my abusive ex-friend EVERYWHERE. he started acting dry and rude so i blocked him. maybe i misunderstood even tho he treated me like shit, i dunno!

somehow i think it’s my fault. since i couldn’t figure out how to block him and was seeing his ass everywhere, i decided on the slight chance it was my fault, to apologize.

he will probably say something abusive and never trust or forgive me for blocking him since i know he struggles with feeling remorse or taking accountability for his actions. it’s highly likely he either doesn’t care about me or thinks im the problem.

i know it’s my fault if he continues abusing or bullying me. My fault for wanting a second chance

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[–] HubertManne@piefed.social 6 points 1 month ago (1 children)

Not to be all mom here but if someone abuses or bullies you. They are not your friend.

[–] may_be@thelemmy.club 2 points 1 month ago

ur right