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i spent way too long presenting the way i thought the world wanted me to. these days im presenting the way i want for myself and no one else. some days thats pure comfy with no thought for aesthetics, some days its dressing to the nines cause i want to feel pretty and sexy, and most days its a mix. if people vibe with that, fuck yeah. if they dont they can keep it to themselves. lol is this being a grandma?
I like to think not giving a fuck about other people's opinions is the true "grandma stage" haha
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It is if you have children who have children 😏