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[-] Wren@lemmy.today 6 points 2 months ago

It's not a rape fantasy, it's about being wanted in a situation where the "victim" is in complete control. And what a weird fucking thing to bring up in this thread, in reply to that comment of all things.

It almost sounds like you're trying to justify it.

Are you following the rules of this community?

[-] phdepressed@sh.itjust.works 3 points 2 months ago

I'm certainly not justifying it, just trying to explain it. Have to understand the opposing reasons in order to figure out how to best deal with it.

[-] Wren@lemmy.today 5 points 2 months ago

Oh, lol. You were trying to explain it in the most dumbed down, incorrect, armchair wannabe psychologist way?

You didn't answer my question. Are you in the right community?

[-] velma@sh.itjust.works 4 points 2 months ago* (last edited 2 months ago)

You were trying to explain why men make rape jokes?

Or were you trying to explain why some men enjoy rape?

[-] phdepressed@sh.itjust.works 3 points 2 months ago

Why some men enjoy rape and why they feel comfortable making rape jokes. Its not that separate of a thing. Power fantasy media and fantasy being removed from reality make people feel comfortable about treating it lightly rather than with the seriousness it deserves.

[-] velma@sh.itjust.works 5 points 2 months ago

You think it’s because of hentai depicting rape victims enjoying their rape?

[-] Wren@lemmy.today 2 points 2 months ago

When in history has rape ever been taken seriously? When husbands were allowed to rape their wives?

This is one of the dumbest explanations I've ever heard.

[-] velma@sh.itjust.works 2 points 2 months ago

They're porn sick to think that it's hentai causing men to want to rape.

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