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Occasionally when you’re driving, you’ll make a mistake and perhaps need to adjust and it can create some awkward situations. Like today, my dad ended up in the wrong lane to go straight instead of turn at a light. He had to cut in line to make sure we could go the right way. It’d be nice if we could communicate “sorry, I screwed up. Excuse me. I just need to slip in there.”

Right now all we have for inter car communication is the horn, which has kind of an aggressive implication to it. This is for trying to de-escalate potential road rage.

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[-] Unleaded8163@fedia.io 9 points 3 weeks ago

Three or four blinks of the four-way / hazard lights is commonly used as "Thank you". That would be appropriate for someone who let you in.

[-] Lodespawn@aussie.zone 13 points 3 weeks ago

I have never heard of this and would genuinely think the person was having an issue. Where I'm from people just put a hand up as a wave. You lower most of your fingers if they tried to cut you off.

[-] Whats_your_reasoning@lemmy.world 5 points 3 weeks ago

You lower most of your fingers if they tried to cut you off.

I love how you phrased this.

[-] olafurp@lemmy.world 3 points 3 weeks ago

The way people communicate in cars using hazard lights is country specific usually in my experience.

[-] Lodespawn@aussie.zone 2 points 3 weeks ago

I've noticed some small number of people here (Australia) turning them on when they break hard but I think that might be something that model of car does automatically when you jump on the anchors.

[-] olafurp@lemmy.world 1 points 3 weeks ago

It's pretty common in Palestine, not sure about other Arab countries.

[-] sem@piefed.blahaj.zone 1 points 3 weeks ago

It's common in the USA, especially amongst truckers, where you can't see the hand wave.

[-] Lodespawn@aussie.zone 2 points 3 weeks ago

If a trucker in Australia put on their hazards I'd be getting the fuck out of the way or given them some room because some shit was about to go down, you know, like a hazard.

[-] Tarquinn2049@lemmy.world 3 points 3 weeks ago

Hmm, I thought this was more common, is it not used in the states or something? Not seeing it anywhere near as much as I was expecting to in this thread. Far as I know this is the standard everyone uses, but I guess not "everyone" everyone.

[-] hansolo@lemmy.today 2 points 3 weeks ago

It's not a thing in the States at all. There's zero use of the hazard lights other than to indicate your car is having problems and you need to pull over, or you're parking (poorly, usually) and will be right back.

it gets used when approaching stopped traffic on a freeway so cars behind you can brake earlier

[-] hansolo@lemmy.today 2 points 3 weeks ago

Oh, yeah, I guess so. I've done that a few times when I was pulling up to the back of the traffic.

[-] Whats_your_reasoning@lemmy.world 2 points 3 weeks ago

Lived in the states my entire life. Never heard of that.

[-] Tarquinn2049@lemmy.world 1 points 3 weeks ago* (last edited 3 weeks ago)

Yeah, that's what I figured. When stuff isn't as common as you expect on the internet, it probably doesn't happen in the states.

[-] ozymandias117@lemmy.world 2 points 3 weeks ago

I've seen turning your headlights/running lights off and on in the US for a "sorry/thanks". I haven't seen hazards used for that ever

[-] sem@piefed.blahaj.zone 0 points 3 weeks ago

It is common in the States, especially amongst truckers.

[-] Paradachshund@lemmy.today 1 points 3 weeks ago

This isn't a thing where I live but I wish it was!

[-] hansolo@lemmy.today 1 points 3 weeks ago

I've only seen that in Eastern Europe, but as both a "thank you" and also "oh, shit, sorry."

[-] Rolive@discuss.tchncs.de 2 points 3 weeks ago

Western Europe too. But then again there are a lot of eastern European truck drivers here.

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