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submitted 4 days ago* (last edited 4 days ago) by cheese_greater@lemmy.world to c/nostupidquestions@lemmy.ca

I desperatey need to buy a new proper bed. Here are my initial thoughts/stats:

have sleep apnea so I feel like it should be adjustable

side-sleeper 99% of the time

no idea about how firm I like or want

Wonder if it would be best to buy in-store so I can actually try it out, I'm having a hard time stomaching the idea of buying something online with zero idea of what it actually ends up like, not that anything wouldnt be better at this point than my current situation

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[-] bizarroland@lemmy.world 3 points 4 days ago

I'm gonna buck the trend here and say to get a coil spring mattress.

I picked up a king from my local, like, alternative to Walmart, and it's a coil spring mattress by Sealy or Tempur-Pedic, and it's a little bit harder than I wish it was.

But I threw a 3-inch memory foam mattress topper on top of it, and it's like sleeping on a cloud.

That being said, the reason why I recommend a coil spring mattress over a straight memory foam mattress is sexy times.

Coil spring makes for vastly more capable and entertaining fun sexy times in my personal experience.

The only annoyance that I have is, like, continuously re-locking in the mattress topper because it likes to slide around a little bit.

That and I had to get deep pocket sheets for the bed to cover the distance from both the mattress and the topper.

Still worth it. It gives you like an automatic plus one to your sexy times capabilities as a guy.

And the whole kit, it was like $500, $550 for the king mattress, and then another $175 for the topper, but that's honestly not that bad, before a mattress that feels just as soft and comfy as a $1,200 mattress, but gives you the fuck power of a twin in a dorm room

[-] bizarroland@lemmy.world 3 points 3 days ago

Not gonna lie, I broke my one and a half year dry streak like three hours before I posted this, lol.

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