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I was wrong... (lemmy.blahaj.zone)

I would like to start off by thanking everyone. Your replies...just wow. I didn't expect literally everyone to reply to my post...
I'd also like to apologize...for doubting you, even though I've very clearly received nothing but support from you all...

I had a really bad spiral. And I said some stuff. I want to apologize to everyone involved...
But I can't leave Lemmy. I can't leave the Transfem community. Not after all of the extremely positive experiences I've had here. Not after I'd met so many kind and supportive people...

This basically means...that you'll have to put up with me for some more. And I'm sorry about that, y'all 😆 /s
But...I'll try. I'll try to be less anxious and more Miisha, if that makes any sense. I'll try to be kinder to everyone and hopefully a bit more helpful. I just...really feel like this is a safe community, a little safe space that I want to be part of. So I'm sorry about what I did. It was wrong and overly dramatic of me.

I'm truly exhausted from crying and burying my head in the Godot game engine for hours at a time. So please...don't go anywhere, okay? I'll reply tomorrow, to all of you, kind people in my phone 🩷
And...thanks for having me here. Really, I mean it. Thanks for creating such a kind, safe and supportive community for us. And thanks for letting me be a part 💜

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[-] brookedSmile@lemmy.blahaj.zone 19 points 2 days ago

Hey, i didnt see any of what happened but i just wanna chime in to say youve been nothing but an absolute positive for the community here. Theres nothing you could have possibly said that cant be apologized for and forgiven. So i forgive you ❤️

Also, you commented on my mental health post, sharing the sentiment of everyone else that im not allowed to go anywhere. If im not allowed to go anywhere then youre not either. I dont want to see you leave ❤️❤️❤️

Also also, youre a great person and soooo beautiful and not afraid to get a little NSFW which i love because its another inspiration for the more shy people around here. I havent been able to do anything even mildly nsfw but it gives me confidence that one day i will. Even if it doesnt end up as a post here, itd still be great to feel so natural in my own skin that maybe my partner gets something 😁

Even tho iirc youre newer around here than me, i still look up to you, and i love you sis. Ill always want you around, and i consider you a core part of this community ❤️

Brooke! I'm sorry, I did something dumb 😭
You're so nice, thank you so much! 💜

You're right, and...the NSFW stuff isn't going anywhere 😆. I'm glad it could be an inspiration. I hope you feel confident enough in your own skin one day. Girl, you totally have what it takes, wth 🩷

Love you too Brooke. Thanks a lot ❤️. Thanks for being here

this post was submitted on 19 Sep 2026
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