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[-] searabbit@piefed.social 10 points 1 week ago

2 things:

  1. In a strict/ traditional household, being made to feel like you constantly have to hide what makes you a woman. Your period products, any contact with boys (even with my relatives and calling to order food I was accused of flirting!), your body parts.

  2. Being constantly denigrated for being into anything a teenage girl would be into. I couldn't play my music in the car without complaints. Actors and singers with a primary teenage girl fanbase would be mocked and ridiculed relentlessly by the media and boys your age. Especially American male "heartthrobs" would ditch you as fans as soon as you lifted them up enough that they no longer needed you. I think this is why teenage girls gravitate to kpop so much. They at least seem to respect teenage girls as a fanbase (and yet are called gay for it, make that make sense).

this post was submitted on 22 Sep 2026
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