No, let’s be clear here. You are complaining that the majority of rapists are men and that people are accurately pointing that out.

I dont think so? At least that was not my intention.

I do agree that #notallmen is reactionary.

I also believe that the media pressure is calling all the men rapists.

I was trying to convey that having any kind of movement (because to decrease the rape rate, we will need to have a grassroot movement to push the issue) that alienates part of society, will not be successful. And campaigning on hurting the feelings of men is a bad, pointless idea. Why do it. What for? That's not solving the problem.

I will reply to the second part separately, it will be easier that way