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I'm never going to be enough for anyone
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This your first big breakup?
She was the first person I dated that made me feel safe and didn't make me feel used. She was the first person I dated who's family wasn't outright abusive to me. It's not my first big breakup but it's my first breakup with someone who (until now I suppose) treated me like an actual person
Yep, the more you love a person and having this be a relatively new experience is so fucking rough. Day by day, bit by bit, you'll heal. This isn't to diminish the pain because it will likely be on the leader board for worst experiences and pain in your life, but it should only get better from here.
I get it. I married my partner for similar reasons. But you found love once. You can find it again. No words can make the pain any easier now. But it does get better with time.