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How to relax? (lemmy.ml)

If I don't take meds I feel I should be doing things and then feel bad when I don't.

Or if I do take meds I get a lot of things done and feel productive but zaped of energy.

Hobbies are either invested in and dropped or I just feel 'bored' and don't want to get any of the stuff out to do them. If they stick around a bit longer they then feel like a chore or become a larger project and just another thing in the to-do pile and not relaxing.

Where is the off button and how do I relax?

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[-] crunchy@lemmy.dbzer0.com 9 points 1 day ago

The nagging need to be doing something may very well be some comobid anxiety. Isn't that fun?

What helps me relax is having time scheduled specifically for nothing, or "unproductive time," where I can let my mind can just function on autopilot. Maybe I'll decide to read, or play a game, or cook an elaborate meal, or go for a run. Whatever pops up, for as long as I feel like doing it. What's important is scheduling the downtime so that you can consider it its own task and you're less tempted to go be "productive." You can try it medicated or not, I've had success with the method both ways.

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