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this post was submitted on 04 Oct 2026
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I explicitely said not to just shut the fuck up and do what you are told. Either all rules are arbitrary or none are, as all rules are to achieve a specific goal and there is no logical way to get an aught from an is statement. Figure out the goal and decide from there, as in the example given: goal make sure that we don't die to them not following our instructions, so make one extremely arbitrary rule that would be one of the first things people like you would skip because they don't see the point in making sure that everything is set up exactly right. A decent number of rules are exactly like that, a quick vibe check to see at a glance if you are going to do the "arbitrary rules" that don't have an obvious reason but never the less have an actual important reason behind them.
Something not being obvious does not equate to it being arbitrary. If it’s arbitrary then it literally has no importance and is unnecessary. That’s what arbitrary means. You are very much just saying shut up and do as you’re told.
Arbitrary in this case means it doesn't specifically matter but it still can overall. Like what specifically you choose to eat is arbitrary, but that you eat at all is important.
No. My god. No, thats not how that fucking works. That not at all what is being discussed. This isn’t about eating your fucking vegetables. You guys act like authoritarianism and theocracy don’t exist. There are a lot of rules that people insist exist only to practice making you follow rules. You people are fucking sheep.
Edit: To be clear to all the reactionaries, not every rule is arbitrary, sure, I’m talking about the actually arbitrary rules that you blank slates insist don’t exist. If you’ve ever worked a corporate job you know exactly what I’m tqlkimg about.