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Girls...get a wand (lemmy.nz)
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No I'm serious. I bought mine about a year before starting HRT. It was about 20$, not a real Hitachi one (the picture is the one I have). Even back then, it became my only way of finishing. Not because I couldn't, back then, but because doing it the "standard way" (ew) was and still is very dysphoric for me. Also, using a wand is just affirming? It feels that way at least. It was legitimately one of the best purchases ever.

Now that I'm actually on HRT, it's literally the only way I can finish. Doing it the other way is just dysphoric af for me and also it literally hurts, because the skin is thinner and more sensitive now. I cannot finish that way, no matter how long I try for...I just end up hurting myself, so I've given up on that method a looong time ago. Also, I may be wrong, but I'm at least 90% sure that the wand is one of the reasons I can have long, full-body orgasms. Vibrations feel gooood lol

I didn't think it would work on me (pre-OP) when buying it. Well...I was pleasantly surprised ๐Ÿ˜†. I'm almost convinced that a magic wand will work well for anyone, regardless of gender identity or anatomy. I really, honestly think that.
So please...no matter if you're a woman or a man (or NB!), cis or trans, on HRT or not, pre-OP, no-OP or post-OP...get yourself a wand. It's the best investment I've ever made in my life, no joke ๐Ÿ’œ

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[-] Nouvellalia@lemmy.world 7 points 2 days ago

Get the real one from a reputable seller. I can imagine with the price tag and ease of getting a similar shell, these are frequently counterfeited. So go to a long lived Internet toy shoppe with a good reputation.

They never go one sale because of agreements with the resellers. So if you see one on sale past the usual price tag ($129, $149? I don't remember) it's not real.

The cordless lasts 4 hours and can be used plugged in. I would highly recommend that one. I used to have ye olde, branded, 120v, mains powered beast, and the cordless is just as good.

It fits great in a curling iron bag.

Work up something to cover the buttons if you're throwing it into a backpack. There is no way to disconnect the battery without a screwdriver.

The only downside is that they are not waterproof.

[-] Miisha@lemmy.blahaj.zone 4 points 2 days ago

I'm planning to get one! Once I have the money, that's what I'm getting. I'm totally getting a corded one tho.

It fits great in a curling iron bag.

LOL, that's such a girly thing to do tho, hiding your magic wand in your curling iron bag ๐Ÿ˜‚
No offense, I respect and understand that.

The only downside is that they are not waterproof

Nyooooo ๐Ÿ˜ญ

Thanks for the recs! ๐Ÿฉท

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