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could not donate blood
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this post was submitted on 10 Oct 2026
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I can’t give blood because I’m married to the same sex. Too bad for them.
If you're not aware, the guidelines were actually changed a few years ago in the US
IIRC the rules now are you can donate as long as you haven't had anal with new or multiple partners in the last 3 months
Which, sure, still excludes some gay men, and it also excludes some straight men and women.
But if you're monogamous you're probably ok to donate now unless you went from not having sex to married in the space of the last 3 months, in which case you'd still be good to go in a couple months.
If you're not in the US, different regulations will of course apply.
People in the USA don’t deserve my blood, so they don’t get it.
That's really fucking stupid. Do you think your donated blood only goes to the fascists and bigots?
At this point, I think at this point anyone whose feet are in America is a fascist and a bigot.
And this is just as stupid. Not everyone has the ability to move, and there are many of us who are fighting to try and change things.
Claiming everyone in a county is the same as their government is just waving your stupid flag for everyone to see.
My dude, there's certainly a lot of things other countries can justifiably act all superior about when comparing themselves to the US.
But in this case, if your country isn't letting you donate blood because you're gay, I think it's pretty safe to say that in this case the US is doing something better than your country.
So given that context you look kind of stupid getting on your high horse here.
You wish I was your dude. I’m referring to my time in the USA. Although I no longer live there today.
that's harsh...
I'm pretty sure Sweden has no permanent deferral (though extra rules apply as it seems from the health-check questionnaire)