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You don't get a pass because your 13 year olds of choice are japanese and drawn characters. It's creepy as fuck and I am judging you for it.

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[-] farmgineer@nord.pub 22 points 5 days ago* (last edited 5 days ago)

Adults with anime school girl avatars

Some of them, I'm sure. Some people I think just have a favorite character or look like them or relate to them somehow. I live in Japan and it's not uncommon for adults to have a character for an existing anime or even something drawn for them in that style based on their own appearance (men and women, old and young) in LINE (messaging app) or whatnot.

As for the rest (i.e. being actually attracted to or overly-obsessed with), yeah, that's getting in to creep/pedo territory.

[-] TeaWithDani@lemmy.world 3 points 4 days ago* (last edited 4 days ago)

Exactly, as someone called out in this post: I really just like Osage-chan. I find her super relatable and fun.

That said its not ok to be weird and have "waifus" that are not age appropriate for you.

If you watch anime as an adult you have to grow up and recognize you are watching media targeted for kids and teenagers. You can't engage with it like you would if you were still that age.

If I were to watch Lucky Star as a teenager, I might have a crush on some of the characters. But as an adult I can recognize the best girl is their teacher Nanako. 🤟

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