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this post was submitted on 14 Oct 2026
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I've seen this one several times through the years and every time it reminds me of when some bros decided it would be funny to get "the weird kid" high. He was freaking out until someone did the kindness to tell him what was going on and stay with him, then he was just really uncomfortable until it wore off enough so he could sleep it off.
I guess it traditionally gets a pass on the grounds that it's "questionable behavior of people when they're high," not "helpful advice."
With adult co-workers you'd hope they would at least pull a "OMG guys! My sister just called me and said I brought the wrong batch of brownies, those were the pot ones for her book group!" so everyone would at least know they were high, not having a stroke or psychotic break or something. And maybe quietly keep the weird kid from taking one.
Side note: keep drugs, especially edibles, locked up away from pets. I've seen a couple very miserable dogs who were high as a kite for days from getting into someone's stash.
In the spirit of discussing unethical behavior: cannabis is detected for days after the high itself, so I'm guessing a very low dose would be enough to trigger the test if it's the same day or the next one.
However, the opsec aspect of not being immediately fired and possibly prosecuted as the guy who drugged everyone is more questionable to me.