Why is being a nice and good person less rewarding? (lemmy.zip)

submitted 3 days ago by shojivr@lemmy.zip to c/asklemmy@lemmy.ml

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tried to stay positive, then misfortune strikes
tried making friends, ended up ghosted
tried looking for better job, then scammed
tried save money, inflation happens
tried sell product online, fees and tax cut, also less buyers.
tried theraphy, the solution only dont think about it, its okay (if only it was that easy)
tried being nice, taken advantage of
tried being honest, get hatred
tried religion, yet god let million of nice person suffers
tried sleep, need regular medication
tried work hard, ended up surgery and years of rehabilitation

at this point, i am so tired with whatever i do, it always doesnt work.

right now i can relate why some people choose to become evil person, because being good and nice person in this world is just not as rewarding as bad people does. even those people who ghosted and bullied me ended up becoming rich and succesful, and here i am struggle everyday. life is really unfair world.

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[-] shojivr@lemmy.zip 1 points 1 day ago

What happened? I hope you don't live in Palestine.

i am not from palestine, but lot of bad things happened to me this year, including lost 4 years worth buisiness, third burn degree on both of my hand because of hospital malpractice, diagnosed with anxiety disorder and depression, even a lizard decided to drop on my body when i was going to toilet.

What happened?

i tried to approached some people, be as friendly as possible, then get ignored

This will keep on happening if you live the US.
it also happens in asia too.

What happened?

i done lot of hardwork and being as nice as possible, but certain platform decided to take advantage of me and i am taking loss in the end.

But again, what happened?

one of them is i am being honest that life is not always about getting married, have kids, etc, but lot of people hate and think its coward mindset.

Therapy exists because medicine for your ailment doesn't yet.

and theraphy itself doesnt too

this post was submitted on 12 Oct 2026

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