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this post was submitted on 13 Oct 2026
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A couple of things:
Trashy western sex appeal (or tacticool fetish, drug glorification, or whatever) is a fair point. That’s a problem. Some of those trashy western shows are popular, too.
But I don’t buy whataboutism. It doesn’t make either thing okay.
Some popular anime really takes things to an… extreme.
And even outside the notorious anime, I kept finding problematic tropes when I tried to get into anime, like these women written in a way that got me to squirm in my seat and turn off my TV. When I sample critically acclaimed western TV/animation, this is not such an issue; I don’t mean to make a comparison, but just to convey that anime sampling made me uncharacteristically uncomfortable.
My point is that you, a westerner, being comfortable with Western media but uncomfortable with Japanese media, is not as much indicative of the character of the content as it is indicative of the things that have been normalized for you vs the things that have been normalized for others.
That's the thing you're missing: every culture has problematic content, every culture gets desensitized to their own problematic stuff but not others', and every culture has complex reasons why those things developed there.
I promise you: people around the world squirm at your favorite media just as much as you squirm at theirs, because your cultural history, standards, Overton Window, and exposure to media are significantly different.
You have been describing your subjective experiences as if they provide objective facts about the content. It is hard to step back, recognize your own cultural biases, and remove them before assessing both other cultures' media and your own culture's.
Like, imagine an American saying "I've sampled a lot of American food and almost never find it disgusting. But when I sample food from other countries I frequently find things I don't like." Wouldn't you be like "yeah? And? Obviously that's because you grew up with American food"
Ah yes of course, your romantic depictions of children are ok because they're nuanced and cultural and any adults who call it weird just aren't cultured enough to appreciate all that n~~ua~~once.
Did you even read what I wrote? Or did you find the first sentence you didn't like and skipped straight to the reply button?
Because I never said it was okay. I flat out stated that there are shows I refuse to watch due to their problems.
These issues are complex. Most cultures around the world have serious problems when you step back from your own subjective experiences. Getting btfo about one media subculture or another without understanding the "why" is unhelpful and ignorant. And many of the things you interpret one way are intended and interpreted extremely differently by the other culture. Everything I've said is about identifying the difference between actual degeneracy and cultural norms, and gracefully putting all of it in the proper cultural context.
If you just wanted to come here and stroke your own sense of moral superiority then piss off.
The cultural and histotical signifucance of your horny demon child anime does not justify it existing or stop it from being pedo shit.
You are obviously not here to engage in good faith discussion. You have repeatedly misrepresented both my words and my intentions.
I don't know what axe you have to grind but it's clear you are just looking to rant about how uncomfortable you feel.
You're better off talking to a therapist about that than posting on the internet.
Goodbye and good luck.