Why can't people see that this community and every post in it is a reaction to a lifetime of being pressured into having kids? I have seen zero posts here and very few comments here which cannot be easily explained by that dynamic.

You don't have to choose to see any sentiment less than neutral when it comes to kids as hatred toward kids. In fact out of every time a child themselves bothered me, I blamed the parents 99% of the time for standing there and watching their child behave shittily