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Who do you want to be? and how close are you to becoming that person?
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Strive toward being the pest person possible. It's a CIP: continuous improvement process.
While having 5 minutes, think about what worked well and how you caused that. If something did bit work out, try finding out why and what you can change, take a bite, try it differently, reassess.
Traveling? Bring a list for packing. Important: at the end of the journey, make a note of the things you didn't use so you avoid carrying more in the future. Cooking? Weigh out how much salt you use, think whether you like the taste, adjust, take note. Gardening? Take not which plants wen where and when. Take not then have a good long thought in two months to see if everything worked. Especially observe what worked suboptimally and try differently. And so on. Something something madness is doing the same thing over a d over again...
Life goals!