so like, whilst I don't like Tankies AT ALL (they all demand your read a specific 1000 book list before even having a discussion)... I do think anti-communists are also annoying and often under cooked/biased on historical facts.

I agree.

..Vietnam also has a system of Market Socialism, they've just almost resolved homelessness and have no housing crisis because they have a land redistribution system for anyone who wants to go into farming.

Always assumed they did what china did. They realized that the tool to stay in power was stability and growth, so they incentivized development on the local and national level for climbing the party ladder and good boy points. But it's nice to see them actually follow through with the ideals as well.

In short - in comes across as reactionary (rather than thoughtful/legitmate).

I understand how that can be tiring. I've stopped talking to anyone who purports any fascist or anti-socialist ideals. They will never listen. They are too comfortable with the power they hold to reconsider. On lemmy, I have come across far too many tankies who confuse me to no end. They come off as religious nuts who pretend to like the same ideals I do. They are in my opinion just as worse as the anti-communists.

I don't want to be associated with them. And I think the political spectrum is far too complicated to neatly divide people into simple categories. But it's easier to do and who has the time to actually get to know strangers online. So, as a rule, I am against any tankie or fascist.