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Respectability Rule (sh.itjust.works)
submitted 11 months ago by rambling_lunatic@sh.itjust.works to c/196@lemmy.blahaj.zone
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[–] Imgonnatrythis@sh.itjust.works 60 points 11 months ago (2 children)

Depends on your social circles I guess.

[–] Sharpiemarker@startrek.website 23 points 11 months ago (7 children)

Name a social circle where you can use language like in the first example, and it's acceptable.

[–] ArmokGoB@lemmy.dbzer0.com 73 points 11 months ago (1 children)

Furry Discord servers

[–] Sharpiemarker@startrek.website 22 points 11 months ago (1 children)

I'm learning a lot today

[–] DreadPirateShawn@lemmy.blahaj.zone 26 points 11 months ago (1 children)

Cums with the territory.

[–] Sharpiemarker@startrek.website 17 points 11 months ago* (last edited 11 months ago) (1 children)

[–] Neato@kbin.social 55 points 11 months ago

Friends who are OK talking about and don't shame you about sex. Also friends who have a sense of fucking humor.

[–] itslilith@lemmy.blahaj.zone 48 points 11 months ago (1 children)

this one

[–] Sharpiemarker@startrek.website 26 points 11 months ago

Well you got me there

[–] dion_starfire@sh.itjust.works 35 points 11 months ago

I know several people in the kink community who would congratulate and be enthusiastically happy for someone who said the first, but would only politely say "congrats" to the second.

[–] uriel238@lemmy.blahaj.zone 23 points 11 months ago (1 children)

A BDSM munch comes to mind.

[–] Sharpiemarker@startrek.website 8 points 11 months ago (1 children)

I'm ok with not knowing what that is. I'll take your word for it.

[–] blackstampede@sh.itjust.works 16 points 11 months ago

A munch is a non-sexual social gathering of kinky people with food.

[–] Socsa@sh.itjust.works 6 points 11 months ago (1 children)

My friends and family say this kind of shit all the time, I'm sorry your life is without humor.

[–] Sharpiemarker@startrek.website 3 points 11 months ago

Big assumption there chief

[–] Rolder@reddthat.com 2 points 11 months ago

Furry convention

[–] volvoxvsmarla@lemm.ee 2 points 11 months ago

Half of my former social circle would have found the second version unacceptable