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“Neuter your ex” campaigns popped up across the country this year, from Maryland to Michigan to Washington state. Getting back at an ex can now mean neutering or spaying a cat because “some things shouldn’t breed,” as one New Jersey animal shelter put it.

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[-] 5C5C5C@programming.dev 5 points 2 years ago

Violence implies that harm is happening. In mind, the most harmful thing about neutering a human without their consent is the subsequent trauma that the person needs to live the rest of their life knowing that they will not be able to reproduce. Non-human animals don't carry that burden and therefore won't experience that trauma. They can go about the rest of their lives in perfectly happy ignorance.

The physical aspect of the operation is a negligible concern. They recover from that just fine. Animals of all kinds need to undergo surgical operations for many reasons, and it's not considered violence.

As for humans with severe hereditary genetic disorders, I personally think they should consider making a choice to not reproduce. If parenthood is something important to them and they're qualified to be a parent, they should consider adopting. I have no inheritable genetic issues myself but I'm still of the mind that I should choose to adopt instead of giving birth even though there is a part of me that wants to have a biological child very badly. But I need to consider what's good for humanity as a whole, and too many humans on this planet is not good, so I believe I should avoid contributing to that problem.

So the difference is, a human can be reasoned with and make their own decision. Whether or not people ordinarily do make reasoned decisions about important matters is another concern; the salient point is that they can.

I'm not going to force a person to make the decision that I personally think is right, but at least an attempt can be made. With non-human animals we can't even make that attempt. And when it comes to people whose mental faculties are so severely limited that they can't comprehend the situation they're in, that kind of person is obviously not fit for parenthood and likely can't function independently. At that point I hope their caretaker will make sure that they aren't exposed to opportunities for unintentional childbirth.

[-] DarkNightoftheSoul@mander.xyz 1 points 2 years ago* (last edited 2 years ago)

I hope you don't mind, I'm gonna focus my reply mostly to this previous response, since I was zonked out last night, and feel out of my depth in the focus on persons with intellectual disabilities without extensive research.

Violence implies that harm is happening. In mind, the most harmful thing about neutering a human without their consent is the subsequent trauma that the person needs to live the rest of their life knowing that they will not be able to reproduce. Non-human animals don’t carry that burden and therefore won’t experience that trauma. They can go about the rest of their lives in perfectly happy ignorance.

I would say the most harmful thing done to an unconsenting person who suffered a neutering procedure would be the lack of ability to reproduce thereafter. This disability, its consequences is what humans would consider traumatic, not necessarily the knowledge thereof. Being ignorant (I do not concede this ignorance but for the sake of argument) of the harm doesn't mean the harm doesn't occur, though I would grant it could prevent trauma. Further, I think you might accidentally be smuggling in an unsupported assumption. On the one hand you say animals can't communicate (ie, we can't ascertain their consent) but on the other that they aren't traumatized. If they can't communicate well enough to ascertain their consent, how can we ascertain their emotional status? Given that, on what basis can you say they definitively aren't traumatized by this procedure, categorically?

The physical aspect of the operation is a negligible concern. They recover from that just fine. Animals of all kinds need to undergo surgical operations for many reasons, and it’s not considered violence.

Tentatively granted. Medically necessary surgeries are not violent, though they very often do entail trauma.

but I’m still of the mind that I should choose to adopt instead of giving birth even though there is a part of me that wants to have a biological child very badly.

I am incredibly empathetic on this line. I feel a huge urge to reproduce despite, y'know, gestures broadly. I hope I have the moral courage to do the objectively right thing here.

So the difference is, a human can be reasoned with and make their own decision. Whether or not people ordinarily do make reasoned decisions about important matters is another concern; the salient point is that they can.

My reading of this works out to "A human can make a rational decision, but sometimes doesn't. By implication, animals are incapable of thinking rationally. By extension, animals will never control their population on their own. Therefore, animal populations should be controlled by mass sterilization." [heavily paraphrasing, please let me know if I have taken any inappropriate liberties with your arguments here or elsewhere. I am not looking to argue with a straw man.]

I hope that you will agree once I point it out- this doesn't answer the question. I'm not asking whether/how the practice is justified, I'm asking why it doesn't it constitute sexual assault. (Obviously, since animals are (strictly legally speaking) considered chattel and therefore don't have rights (their owners have rights over them), they aren't protected by e.g. sexual assault statutes. I'm asking the moral question, rather than the legal one.) "If we don't practice what you are arguing constitutes sexual assault, then there could be disastrous consequences for society," [heavily paraphrasing] doesn't answer the question "does this action constitute sexual assault?"

I can foresee an objection in your mind- I'm being too dismissive of your arguments and saying only the answer that I want will fit the question. I disagree. For one, I am not looking for any specific answer. For another, I'm not dismissing your arguments, I am defeating them (in my opinion😊).

but I’ve also known people with Down’s syndrome who can’t get their own pants on without assistance (I mean this literally and objectively as a reference point for cognitive function, not as a joke).

I'm feeling comfortable enough around you not to worry about that. It's hard to tell with internet strangers sometimes, but you seem earnest enough. You get the Dark Night of the Soul 🦭 of approval.

I don’t believe in forced sterilization or forced prevention... so what I’m suggesting is not eugenics.

I did want to come back to this point, though. With the greatest possible respect, you have been advocating for animal eugenics all along (in my opinion), and I don't see how you're going to successfully argue that you weren't, except perhaps in that nominal legal sense I referred to in parenthesis above.

[-] 5C5C5C@programming.dev 2 points 2 years ago* (last edited 2 years ago)

I'm curious, do you have first hand experience with dogs before and after being neutered?

My father-in-law has three pedigree (blech) dogs, each one a different breed, one boy and two girls, who he refuses to neuter because he likes the idea of being able to breed them with other pedigree dogs and sell the puppies or give them to family.

Wait no sorry he HAD three dogs until the male started raping the females. That created a new generation of dogs in his household, and then the brothers started raping the sisters creating another generation. Now my FIL puts chastity belts on all the dogs, but that still didn't stop another litter from showing up.

Even though he's given away more than half the litter he still has 8 frenzied dogs occupying his household. The girls attack each other when they're in heat, the boys fight each other and try to rape the girls even though they're all wearing chastity belts so it just ends up being impotent acts of violence against each other. His house is a hellscape of barking and fighting but he still refuses to neuter because he has some ridiculous notions about God's plan and procreation being sacred, even as he tries to prevent them from procreating using physical restraints.

In my own home I have two neutered rescue dogs, both mongrels, one male and one female. They don't fight and the male never tries to rape the female. They're very high anxiety dogs because of trauma in their early lives, but they're calm at home with each other as long as no one rings the doorbell. The worst thing my male dog has ever tried to do to my female dog is aggressively sniff and lick her genitals, but we stop that whenever it starts up because that carries high risk of a yeast infection for her.

I don't bring my dogs to the dog park anymore because too many assholes with large breed dogs that they refuse to neuter are unleashing their dogs there, and those big unneutered male dogs like to try raping my male dog. There's no question that it's rape because he tries to escape them, but these big dogs all swarm him and hump him like he's a female. I've had to clean dog cum off of him before.

Now my male dog is traumatized and scared of larger male dogs by default, which is frustrating because there are some large male dogs in our neighborhood who are nice and would make good friends but my male dog is too scared to give them a chance.

So basically, I don't really care about the semantic argument around whether or not neutering can qualify as sexual assault or sexual violence. Those terms imply harmful intent and/or harmful outcomes for the victim, and my personal experience tells me that there's far more harm done by leaving dogs unneutered. I don't believe in arguments about what's "natural" because it's part of human nature to manipulate our environment, and that manipulation can have positive or negative effects. We should judge the merit of our choices based on those effects. Letting nature run its course is not inherently virtuous.

[-] DarkNightoftheSoul@mander.xyz 1 points 2 years ago

I'm replying to let you know I've seen that you replied. I just got back from my night's activities and am winding down. I look forward to reading your response.

[-] DarkNightoftheSoul@mander.xyz 1 points 2 years ago

I give you full marks for honesty and conviction. I've already taken my sleepy pills so I'll be increasingly stupid until I pass out. That said, I want to take this point up: I ought to take you to task on this point of eugenics in the "feebleminded" (another word that fell off the euphemism treadmill in the 40s or so) but I would have to frankly learn a lot about that specifically, and while I think a good comparison is there to be made (which is I guess why I made it), I'm not convinced that it's a perfect or generally useful comparison to the point that I'm trying to make, and was only offered in response to my perception of similarity to authors of eugenics papers, including Down himself. I will say that I think you're painting with a very broad brush, especially in that last paragraph. I gave the specific example of down syndrome. Based on what I've read of you, I don't think you'll laugh when I point out that a woman with down syndrome was recently appointed to the spanish parliament. I don't know whether that woman has a carer or if the genetic syndrome is even compatible with reproduction, but

oh no im rambling i've lost the thread help no please i want my brain for a little while longerrr

Look i dont know if you even want (or wanted for that matter) to have me write all the things I was going to say. If you do, I'll write them tomorrow. If you don't. thanks for this brief debate, it was genuinely stimulating, and I figuroed out my library has access to most of the NIH library and several important scholarly journals which I have always thought to be locked behind paywalls forever. I thank you for that boon, even if You did not grant it to me.

stupid bipolar disorder stupid insomnia

[-] 5C5C5C@programming.dev 3 points 2 years ago

I intentionally avoided making any reference specifically to Down's syndrome because I've known people with Down's syndrome who are high functioning and independent, but I've also known people with Down's syndrome who can't get their own pants on without assistance (I mean this literally and objectively as a reference point for cognitive function, not as a joke).

So I'm not going to suggest that all people with Down's syndrome should be actively prevented from birthing children. But I think anyone with a hereditary disorder that severely affects quality of life should be carefully and empathetically counseled through the question of procreation with an honest discussion of the risks involved. Someone with high functioning Down's syndrome may be able to live a perfectly happy life without much assistance, but what kind of risk would they be putting on their prospective child who will have a high likelihood of also getting the syndrome and may have a much worse case of it?

I don't believe in forced sterilization or forced prevention, and I don't believe in selecting for genes based on race or "positive" qualities, so what I'm suggesting is not eugenics. It's simply encouraging people to consider the long term consequences of their decisions and evaluate the risks they are placing on other people (their prospective children) who cannot consent to being born under those risks.

As for individuals with cognitive faculties that are too limited to make any assessment about those risks, they will not be living independently, so I hope their caretaker would not put them in a situation where procreation is a concern to begin with.

And going back to the original matter of non-human animals, I stand by my point that those animals won't be burdened by the knowledge that they can no longer procreate so they won't have any long lasting trauma from the operation. That combined with the importance of reducing unhoused dog and cat populations (which are extremely difficult to control because of how quickly they reproduce) makes the value judgment on this matter a very easy one for me.

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