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[–] Worx@lemmynsfw.com 13 points 7 months ago (1 children)

No. Imagine two Catholics are dating and don't want to have sex before marriage - are they just friends? There's a lot more to romance than just sex, and I feel sorry for the partner of anyone who doesn't realise this

[–] Xanis@lemmy.world 14 points 7 months ago (1 children)

Like it or not, sexual compatibility and intimacy is very important to a lot of people, and a lot of partners. There is more to a romantic relationship than sex, this is very true. However, downplaying the importance of a key component of a love language does no one any favors.

[–] Furball@sh.itjust.works 16 points 7 months ago (1 children)

They aren’t downplaying its importance, they are saying that for some people, sex in a romantic relationship isn’t necessary. This doesn’t go for most people and most people do need it in a relationship but everyone’s experience is different

[–] Worx@lemmynsfw.com 2 points 7 months ago

Understood perfectly 👍