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I was a long time reddit user, and made a couple new accounts as throwaways last year from different emails but they kept getting shadowbanned everytime I tried to post, comment or send a message. Just last night, my 3 year old account I had no issues using it at all got shadowbanned as soon as I sent a message. It's just so frustrating how hard reddit is moderated and there's no explanations given either they just shadowban you and I don't even know where to ask anyone either I installed Lemmy, hoping it'll be a good alternative and it is great and a lot of things I like about reddit, but there's a significant lack of the type of communities that I browsed in reddit. Hopefully I'll find them here or more people will join and it'll be better. So what made you install Lemmy and what did you wish Lemmy had?

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[–] OceanSoap@lemmy.ml 1 points 1 day ago

Where my Sync peeps at??

[–] HatchetHaro@pawb.social 15 points 6 days ago (1 children)
[–] undeffeined@lemmy.ml 3 points 6 days ago* (last edited 6 days ago)

This was the same reason for me.

[–] MargotRobbie@lemm.ee 12 points 6 days ago (1 children)

Well, I was originally here to promote a movie...

[–] Bullybeard@lemm.ee 1 points 6 days ago

I had a crush on you as a teenager when I saw you in suicide squad

[–] That_Devil_Girl@lemmy.ml 12 points 6 days ago (2 children)

I got banned from reddit for saying the genocide in Gaza was bad.

[–] Mrkawfee@lemmy.world 5 points 6 days ago* (last edited 6 days ago) (1 children)

I got banned for saying Israel was a fascist state and this was years before the current genocide started. Zionists have infiltrated that platform good and proper.

[–] sunzu2@thebrainbin.org 3 points 6 days ago

Most of us kinda didn't realize that Israel is a disgusting abomination until Oct 7th

These parasites really crossed some lines

Never again 🀑

[–] Bullybeard@lemm.ee 3 points 6 days ago

I believe the politically correct term to appease the only "acceptable" narrative is war not genocide to describe a very clear targeting of Palestinian children Tsk Tsk for you not knowing it's common knowledge at this point /s

[–] Revan343@lemmy.ca 13 points 6 days ago (2 children)

Reddit killed RIF. I'd already been looking into Lemmy, leading up to the day, but once my app stopped working, I switched to Jerboa and made a Lemmy account.

...didn't stay on Jerboa long

[–] DJKJuicy@sh.itjust.works 2 points 6 days ago

Yup. RIF stopped working. Reddit's official app was a turd sandwich.

I want to say I left Reddit in solidarity with the users and mods at the time, but in reality the Reddit app was just so very, very inconvenient that I tried Lemmy.

[–] whitehatbofh@lemmy.world 2 points 6 days ago (1 children)
[–] Revan343@lemmy.ca 5 points 6 days ago (1 children)

I switched to Connect, and have liked it well enough that I haven't tried any others

[–] doingthestuff@lemy.lol 2 points 6 days ago

Same story, except I have used Connect from day one.

[–] Aksamit@slrpnk.net 15 points 6 days ago (1 children)
[–] QuarterSwede@lemmy.world 5 points 6 days ago

This. Lying bastard.

[–] DancingBear@midwest.social 13 points 6 days ago (1 children)

My Reddit app stopped working…

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[–] sudoer777@lemmy.ml 9 points 6 days ago* (last edited 6 days ago) (1 children)

I saw it as an open source Reddit alternative a few years ago and signed up, then left and went back to Reddit because nobody was using it. Then the API stuff happened, some Reddit users switched to Lemmy so I've been browsing it now, switched between a few instances and am now back here.

(I do wish it had more communities for specific topics and locations like Reddit has, and ironically a lot of FOSS discussion is still on Reddit also.)

[–] sunzu2@thebrainbin.org 2 points 6 days ago

ironically a lot of FOSS discussion is still on Reddit also.)

Bromies love their chains

[–] nsrxn@lemmy.dbzer0.com 11 points 6 days ago

I like open protocols and free software, and during the API exodus there was finally enough content that I wanted to jump ship.

of course I had annoyances with reddit, but I have annoyances with Lemmy too.

it's still preferable imho

[–] InternetCitizen2@lemmy.world 9 points 6 days ago (1 children)
[–] Bullybeard@lemm.ee 5 points 6 days ago (2 children)

I might sound illeterate but what is Foss?

Free and open source software

[–] sunzu2@thebrainbin.org 3 points 6 days ago

Free open source software

~~User can audit the code 🀑~~

User relies on some tech bro to audit the code but hey at least there is some transparency

[–] Mrkawfee@lemmy.world 6 points 6 days ago

Had my account permabanned on Reddit by mods on a power trip.

Then they cut third party support so my app stopped working.

Centralised Social media is a disaster waiting to happen. You just can't trust corporates. They will be corrupted eventually.

[–] tht@social.pwned.page 2 points 5 days ago
  • Most of the content is reposts and bots
  • Moderators remove anything they dont like(Creating an echo chamber)
  • Comments are mostly low-effort jokes or bots, not valuable discussion
[–] mindbleach@sh.itjust.works 7 points 6 days ago

I used old.reddit.com exclusively, so the app thing never affected me personally. But when the admins started extorting those devs, and lying about it... I started looking for the exits. The day I wrote it off entirely was when they casually announced they'd reject and ignore the site-wide protest of moderators who do all their work, for free.

You can't own a community.

You can enable them... or you can abuse them. Reddit chose abuse. The enshittification had been undeniable since 2016, when fascists choked the front page, and the admin response was 'everybody play nice.'

The company doesn't make anything. The site is an empty box. Every worthwhile conversation on some arcane niche, every thread pruned of idiot bastards, is something users made. It's not even like Facebook or Youtube, where a significant chunk of (eugh) "content" is profit-driven. A forum is just people talking.

Moral disgust aside, I immediately knew - the quality was fucked. Posts would keep happening. Comments would abound. But the only reason Reddit worked was that voting filters the best stuff toward the top. The same filter does not work on crap mixed with crap. That's all there's going to be. Bots and fascists yapping at one another in approved tones of voice. r/Funny with five hundred names.

Dumb bastards tried to sell a recipe for stone soup.

[–] Womdat10@lemmy.blahaj.zone 2 points 5 days ago* (last edited 5 days ago)

I was one of the leaders of the big fuck spez on r/place, would have been a bit hypocritical if I'd stuck around after the that.

Edit: probably should add a photo

[–] tupalos@lemmy.world 1 points 4 days ago

Got kicked off reddit. But also fuck Reddit for the api change. I just wish the communities had more traffic like reddit

[–] Sam_Bass@lemmy.ml 5 points 6 days ago

Reddits idiotic moderation

[–] kratoz29@lemm.ee 4 points 6 days ago (1 children)

I wanted to keep using Sync for Reddit and or Boost for Reddit, both clients were built for Lemmy now (as of this message Sync is quite broken though).

Even when I can keep using Sync for Reddit patched with Revanced I truly enjoy using clients such as Voyager (I missed Apollo a lot when I went from iOS to Android) and Summit, Eternity is a good alternative too.

IMHO Summit stands the best because it is the smoothest and behaves almost as good as Sync for Reddit did in its prime.

[–] OceanSoap@lemmy.ml 2 points 1 day ago (1 children)

What's broken about Sync? I use it all the time with no issues.

[–] kratoz29@lemm.ee 1 points 1 day ago

Well, since lemmy.ml is the most updated Lemmy instance (it should be shouldn't it?) I assume you should be facing the same issues as most of us.

For me I stopped using it since it stopped marking as read while scrolling the posts, also it kinda broke upvotes and downvotes but I think I got that fixed modifying some toggle in the Lemmy website...

I can't remember many other instance issues for Sync as of now as I pretty much leave after the 1st one I mentioned.

[–] TehBamski@lemmy.world 2 points 5 days ago* (last edited 5 days ago)

In no particular order as to why I left Reddit to join Lemmy:

  • Reddit became a chore just to see good content. (This is even after the fact of filtering out unrelated or unwanted subreddits in my feed.)
  • The comment sections on Reddit became worse and worse with more joke/meme comments than actually related comments, low effort comments, bot spam, and the burial of your comment for no one to see, (or care to reply to,) if you were to comment on a post or comment more than 24 hours after it's original posting. (Most of the time it felt like you had maybe 8 hours before it seemed to be a waste to comment.) Why would anyone stick around to comment or reply if nearly no one is going to engage?
  • (Like many others have mentioned in the comments,) if you mentioned or talked about anything that wasn't considered good, you were often blasted with downvotes and/or comments.
  • How often you saw rinse and repeat content, questions, and sometimes comments. (I'll admit. I took part in the rinse and repeat content 'sharing' and I wish I hadn't done it for so long. The karma whoring was real for me.)
  • Concerns (then later the reality check,) about how much Reddit is an echo chamber.
  • /u/Spez showing us who he really is.
  • Not liking the direction Reddit was heading. Writing on the wall when they fired Victoria Taylor
  • The API fiasco.
  • Movement towards IPO.

Lemmy doesn't have any of these problems that I've experienced. Lemmy feels very much like a grass roots movement and I like that. I wish the communities that I am a part of had more active users, but that will more likely come with time.

I got temp banned for saying antizionist things, while I was banned I began to look for an open source alternative which lead me here. Early on I used .world but after finding out about Blahaj Lemmy I switched :3

[–] comfy@lemmy.ml 4 points 6 days ago

Joined about a year or two before the reddit API fiasco.

  • I really don't like ads+tracking and didn't want my posts supporting a company like reddit
  • I'm an advocate of FOSS
  • reddit has inherent pressures to censor content based on mass media pressure and profit, and to permit anti-social far right trolls
  • reddit punishes proxy users, where many instances here allow me to protect myself while posting here
  • didn't like the new reddit layout - even before I came here, I was lurking for a year or two on alternate frontends
  • I believed federation was a good strategy at building a better reddit alternative

But also, it actually had some communities at the time. If it were more dead, or unfederated, I'm not sure if I would have put as much effort in building communities.

Reddit being ass

[–] nasi_goreng@lemmy.zip 2 points 6 days ago

Reddit is heavily American-centric.

At least on Lemmy, there can be multiple communities with the same name with different rules, focus, region, and culture.

[–] Pacattack57@lemmy.world 2 points 6 days ago (4 children)

Banned for a stupid reason from Reddit. I made a joke that a mod from r/entertainment didn’t like and got banned. I kept accidentally commenting on the subreddit because I often comment on posts without checking subreddit. Even though I had muted and blocked r/entertainment it kept popping up on my feed because it’s a general subreddit. Got banned from Reddit for trying to circumvent the ban.

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[–] Trent@lemmy.ml 2 points 6 days ago

When reddit started it's dive down the enshitification hole. As for things I wish it had, a lemmy version of multireddits would be nice, especially since we can end up with multiple communities for the exact same thing here.

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