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I know there was some schism and moving of instances, but beyond that I can’t deduce what happened/is happening.

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[–] spujb@lemmy.cafe 227 points 2 days ago (13 children)

Back in December, the instance hosting 196 (lemmy.blahaj.zone) announced that, as part of its mission as a trans-friendly space, harassment based on gender or neopronouns would remain prohibited—even if the user in question was suspected of being a troll. Users were asked to disengage, block, and report suspected trolling behavior rather than bring harassment into a community already vulnerable to that kind of bullying.

There was a small backlash to the policy from some users. This led to a number of “toe the line” posts that weren’t outright gender-based harassment but strongly signaled an intent to misgender or harass in the future. Blahaj admins promptly removed all offending comments during this wave of dissent.

Important to note: The majority of the Blahaj and 196 users supported the policy, upvoting and praising the admins for creating a safe space for trans individuals.

By January, the backlash had mostly subsided, and the trolls causing issues had moved on. However, 196 moderator @moss and their team remained unhappy with the policy. They cited “personal differences” and felt Blahaj admins had overstepped by removing comments themselves rather than allowing 196 mods to address users who openly expressed intent to harass others.

Yesterday, @moss and the 196 moderation team enacted a major decision without consulting the community. They locked !196@lemmy.blahaj.zone and instructed users to move to !196@lemmy.world.

This move was extremely unpopular. Many users strongly dislike lemmy.world for various reasons (a complicated topic better unpacked elsewhere). The announcement post was met with widespread backlash, and @moss eventually locked it. In response, a few users created a new community on Blahaj: !onehundredninetysix@lemmy.blahaj.zone. The new community quickly grew in size and activity, with most users opting to stay on Blahaj rather than migrate to lemmy.world.

It’s clear @moss and the 196 moderators underestimated the community’s attachment to its home on Blahaj. By attempting to uproot the group without input, they alienated much of the community. As a result, most users have moved to the new Blahaj-hosted community, which has already become the more active space.

TL;DR:
@Moss and the 196 mod team tried to move the community to lemmy.world without consulting anyone. The decision was extremely unpopular, leading to backlash and the creation of a new Blahaj-hosted community that most users now prefer.

[–] db0@lemmy.dbzer0.com 69 points 2 days ago (1 children)

This comment would probably make for a good crosspost to !fediverselore@lemmy.ca

[–] spujb@lemmy.cafe 27 points 2 days ago* (last edited 2 days ago)

on it!

edit: https://lemmy.cafe/post/12094663 thanks again for the suggestion

[–] baggachipz@sh.itjust.works 54 points 2 days ago* (last edited 2 days ago) (2 children)

Great write-up, thanks. I love a good shit-show. 🍿

Sounds to me like the OG mods could have said “we don’t like how the admin runs things here, we are leaving as mods and starting a new 196 on .world with hookers and blackjack, you guys do what you want here.”

[–] spujb@lemmy.cafe 33 points 2 days ago

I genuinely would have had no problem with that, and I think most others would agree with me.

[–] Tar_alcaran@sh.itjust.works 23 points 2 days ago

Which everyone would think is fine, but that would mean they'd be mods of an empty community, and thus have no power, and that of course made them upset.

[–] Aussiemandeus@aussie.zone 6 points 1 day ago

I was trying to understand who was who and now I know. Cheers

[–] fsxylo@sh.itjust.works 30 points 2 days ago (1 children)

Oof. Rookie mistake. Even if people aren't against a move most people won't follow you to the new site simply because of laziness. It kills communities.

There really should be a life shattering reason to move a community to a new site.

[–] spujb@lemmy.cafe 25 points 2 days ago (3 children)

Yup. Clearly, “the admin is going to generally protect trans identities on her instance” didn’t ring as “life shattering” to too many. 😸

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[–] Stovetop@lemmy.world 23 points 2 days ago (2 children)

They stated pretty directly it wasn't about the Dragonfucker incident, nor did it involve policies on neopronouns. Drag wasn't even banned for anything to do with neopronouns.

I think the move to lemmy.world was a mistake, but I believe them when they say it has nothing to do with the neopronouns policy.

[–] GBU_28@lemm.ee 23 points 2 days ago (7 children)

Yeah I think the above comment is inappropriately tying the issue to a topic they specifically said wasn't the motivation

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[–] spujb@lemmy.cafe 13 points 2 days ago* (last edited 2 days ago)

Correct. Nevertheless the neopronouns incident was something of a catalyst; all the “differences” had to do with trans issues in some way, and it would be amiss of me not to point out the biggest moment that made 196 come out in support of Ada and Blahaj.

Their other “differences” are also bogus in my opinion.

[–] alcoholicorn@lemmy.ml 17 points 2 days ago* (last edited 2 days ago) (1 children)

Anyone who is angry they can't whip out queerphobia when they're annoyed at someone who uses neopronouns doesn't understand why it's not OK to say racist shit about Clarance Thomas, misogynistic shit about JK Rowling, or transphobic shit about Keffals.

Just a huge red flag that respecting other people's humanity is contingent on benefiting them.

[–] Tar_alcaran@sh.itjust.works 10 points 2 days ago* (last edited 2 days ago)

Exactly. It's fine to attack their horrid personalities, terrible actions and all-round aweful nature, but we don't attack people based on things they can't control.

They chose to be fucking terrible, and we can attack that, it's really pretty simple, and easy too.

[–] other_cat@lemmy.world 5 points 2 days ago

Fantastic write up. Reminds me of a post on Hobby Drama.

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[–] PugEnjoyer@lemmy.blahaj.zone 37 points 2 days ago* (last edited 2 days ago) (2 children)

The really quick summary is that the mods of the 196 community on blahaj.zone wanted to move the community to lemmy.world, but did not announce it publicly to the users or seek their input, and so when the announcement came out, users of the instance felt blindsided by the announcement, and that lemmy.world was a fairly unpopular choice of instance. The resulting discussion from the thread largely did not dissuade skeptical users and contributed to the feelings that the mods were making a unilateral decision based on their desire and ignoring what the users of 196 wanted, and the decision to keep the original community on lemmy.blahaj.zone locked meant that users who did not want to post on lemmy.world were losing out their community.

This resulted in another 196 clone being created on blahaj, the original 196 becoming unlocked, and so now there are 3 196 communities. The newest one, !onehundredninetysix@lemmy.blahaj.zone, has a particularly high posting rate right now, as users are attempting to assert that community's support as opposed to the ones run by the mods of the original and the lemmy.world communities.

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[–] DragonsInARoom@lemmy.world 22 points 2 days ago (2 children)

The mod team tried to move everything to .world. No one liked that and now there's !196@lemmy.blahaj.zone !196@lemmy.world and !onehundredninetysix@lemmy.blahaj.zone the top two are run by the old mod team, the last one is ran by a new mod team. Blahaj zone and onehundresninetysix are active. (Rip 196.world, gone and certainly forgotten.) The mod team and admin had a drama over heavy handed admin over reach on bans in 196blahaj.

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[–] ModeratorCan@lemmy.world 10 points 2 days ago (1 children)

This post isn't really broad enough for the intent of the creator(s) of this community (not me) but I'm not one to remove a post that already has active discussion.

That said:

I'll look through but I'm generally here as more an extra set of eyes for the most egregious content, rather than to be deciphering through individual threads. Locking is an option I may have to use and tbh someone else here may still lock or remove it.

I get this is a contentious topic. I don't want to stifle discussion. I prefer to mod passively. I volunteered here because no one else was and I'm already clearly active enough.

[–] baggachipz@sh.itjust.works 9 points 2 days ago (1 children)

I didn’t mean to stir up shit, I was genuinely curious and wanted to… Ask Lemmy.

[–] Asudox@lemmy.world 1 points 1 day ago

No problem. Though I'll be locking this post. It really generated lots of reports and drama in the comments section.

[–] Susaga@sh.itjust.works 30 points 2 days ago

Imagine an apartment building. The landlord decides the local city council is too overbearing, and decides to move to a different city. They expect the tenants to move with them.

Problem 1: The local city is known for inclusivity, and the new city is known for being overpopulated and having an overbearing city council. Either the landlord has sinister motives or didn't do their research.

Problem 2: The tenants weren't told of the move before the moving van came, and were given no opportunity to weigh in on the decision. The landlord was calling all the shots.

Problem 3: The landlord sealed the building as they moved, making it impossible for someone else to take over as landlord and keep the building running. There was really no reason to do that.

This went about as smoothly as you'd expect. While the landlords did eventually unseal the building, a lot of people completely lost faith in them and moved into a new apartment building in the same city, but with a new landlord ( !onehundredninetysix@lemmy.blahaj.zone ).

[–] ptz@dubvee.org 28 points 2 days ago* (last edited 2 days ago) (6 children)

Semi-related question: What the fuck is 196? I've never understood what it was, just that it was a carry-over from Reddit. Me browsing it is like Homer Simpson reading a Far Side calendar: "I don't get it. I don't get it. I don't get it. LOL....I don't get it."

[–] rtxn@lemmy.world 33 points 2 days ago* (last edited 2 days ago) (1 children)

Some guy made a subreddit called 195 (named after their dorm room number IIRC) where the only rule was that you had to post something before leaving. They later closed the subreddit because it had gotten too large to operate by one person. 196 was created by the community as a successor with the same one rule. Just post. Simple as.

[–] TachyonTele@lemm.ee 14 points 2 days ago

Missing a real chance to continue adding up here. The current one should be 198

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[–] bjoern_tantau@swg-empire.de 24 points 2 days ago (1 children)

https://lemmy.blahaj.zone/post/20937206

Mods of !196@lemmy.blahaj.zone locked the community on blåhaj and wanted to forcefully move over to lemmy.world. Most people didn't like that and someone created !onehundredninetysix@lemmy.blahaj.zone as an alternative.

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[–] DosDude@retrolemmy.com 23 points 2 days ago (1 children)

Mods made a dictator decree to move the community to world, and blocking the old one. People did not agree and made their own new one. On the original instance. Spam in the new community ensued.

Either way, old one was blocked for me. New one too.

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[–] Alchalide@lemmy.world 10 points 2 days ago (3 children)

Onehundrednightysix is stupid. You should have just named it oneninesix

[–] FrostyCaveman@lemm.ee 3 points 1 day ago

They should’ve called it 197

[–] sem@lemmy.blahaj.zone 4 points 2 days ago

Hehe that was one of the first posts -- the creator regretting the name. But the community rolled with it. Somehow that fits.

[–] Toes@ani.social 8 points 2 days ago
[–] anon6789@lemmy.world 10 points 2 days ago (13 children)

I block most meme based communities because they overpower the rest of what I like, but I've been picking up bits of the events from context.

Does this center around the one individual using, shall we say, a very distinct set of pronouns that a lot of people took issue with?

I kind of enjoyed that person in a social commentary way, but I can see why people more directly effected by pronoun usage may have taken issue and blahaj changing their rules due to it, but if that is what is causing this big schism, that's a pretty wild thing that all is this is the result. I'm interested in the opinions on both sides, but it's one of these things I'm afraid to ask due to polarization like this. I have genuine curiosity but I can totally see how someone could trollishly go after the same info.

[–] PugJesus@lemmy.world 15 points 2 days ago (61 children)

It's a broader disagreement that's been simmering for a while. The 196 mods say that the Drag controversy is unrelated, as Dragonfucker had been banned from 196 long before for unrelated reasons.

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[–] tenacious_mucus@sh.itjust.works 11 points 2 days ago (2 children)

Ya, i woke up this morning to my entire feed being nothing but their “rules” posts. Didn't take more than a few minutes before that place got blocked. My block list is sooo long here….

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