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Am I projecting? What do you think, fellow lemmings?

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[–] Bieren@lemmy.world 12 points 17 hours ago

Been outside or watched the news lately. What’s there to be in a good mood about?

[–] transitinoir@slrpnk.net 4 points 14 hours ago

Who are you referring to as "the whole world", specifically? People on Lemmy? Leftists? Your friends IRL?

[–] nifty@lemmy.world 18 points 19 hours ago

Idk, some leftist people (including minorities) are energized and motivated, so it’s important not to get stuck in some weird self-defeating trap. Political up and downs happen every generation. Don’t fall for the doomer BS, it’s important to keep following through with your personal goals and persevere. Find a community and volunteer, take care of each other.

Ultimately people should seek to close gaps with others, and try to find common ground, while acknowledging that there are some values which cannot be compromised, like sacrificing someone’s humanity and (personal/psychological) safety.

[–] jsomae@lemmy.ml 7 points 16 hours ago (1 children)

You can find people in a good mood, but not on Lemmy :P

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[–] gravitas_deficiency@sh.itjust.works 39 points 1 day ago (5 children)

I mean, our new Dear Leader’s best oligarch buddy threw two very unambiguous Nazi salutes inside of five seconds during a nationally televised speech, and the vast majority of our media establishment is simply bending over backwards to give him the benefit of the doubt over his “awkward hand motion”. So yeah I’m in a bad fucking mood, because this shit is going to become de rigueur.

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[–] golden_zealot@lemmy.ml 63 points 1 day ago* (last edited 1 day ago) (4 children)

Our wealth is taken, no one does anything.

Our health is taken, no one does anything.

Our privacy is taken, no one does anything.

Our voices are taken, no one does anything.

Our citizenships are taken, no one does anything.

The reason is apathy, which feeds inability, which feeds apathy, which feeds inability to do anything.

When our lives are taken, most people will be both ultimately unable and unwilling to do anything.

Even if people don't know it outright, they feel it.

More than this, we feel a disappointment and a shame in our bones that can't be shaken off because it is that outrageous and primal fear of losing anything more that drives our inaction, and so we feel ourselves to be cowards at our very core.

This is what grinds away at our souls daily.

When you eventually decide to do something, you will see you are no longer apathetic or unable. Your fears will begin to heal, and in this way it will save your soul. This is the power of courage. It is something you have to make for yourself, but hope is what drives it and hope is given.

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[–] TacoButtPlug@sh.itjust.works 55 points 1 day ago (2 children)

My coworker said to me today that all the news outside of the US is calling us Nazi America and this goes hand in hand with my own international news reading experience in the last day. I think everyone is acknowledging how dumb we look and how it affects them?

[–] menemen@lemmy.ml 24 points 23 hours ago* (last edited 23 hours ago) (2 children)

As someone from "outside the US": It isn't much better elsewhere. Italy has a fascist government, France is fucking up everything, Sweden has a governemnt depending on a borderline fascist party, the Netherlands has borderline fascists as part of the government, in Germany open fascists poll at 20% as the 2nd most popular party (elections are next month), Georgia is on the brink of civil war, Korea is in a utterly weird crisis/coup mode, in the middle east we are having a genocide happening, Sudan is in chaos, and so on and on.

On the bright side: Things appear to be somewhat okay in Spain and Belgium seems to have a somewhat half-working government.

[–] brambc@lemmy.world 7 points 22 hours ago* (last edited 22 hours ago) (1 children)

Belgian here, we have a working Flemish and Wallon regional governement, as well as for the Flemish (is same as régional) and French and German speaking communities’ governements, but the Brussels region and federal aren’t getting anywhere. It’s only been 227 days tho… ETA: radical right was almost largest party in Flanders, and the ´libéral’ party in Wallonia won with a radical right agenda

[–] menemen@lemmy.ml 5 points 22 hours ago* (last edited 22 hours ago)

Ah okay, I thought this Caretaker government turned into a somehat working stopgap. Okay, so, everyone, ignore my comment on Belgium. :)

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[–] bobs_monkey@lemm.ee 18 points 1 day ago (6 children)

Sounds about right. My wife has friends abroad that have been calling and asking if everything is alright, then start the questions of how we let this happen, why don't we do anything about it, etc. And I'll be honest, I do feel pretty helpless at the moment and very uneasy about the next period of time. I've been reading quite a bit about WWII and how Germany got into their situation, and almost too much if it parallels. Most of the population was sick of the status quo and wanted change, those who spoke up and tried pointing certain things out were labeled as worrying lunatics, and most of society was too ignorant to care until it was too late. I mean, what the hell is an individual to do? I could grab my rifle and take to the streets, and immediately get gunned down by cops, or start writing letters that will pretty just get me added to a list at this point.

[–] SocialMediaRefugee@lemmy.ml 4 points 14 hours ago* (last edited 14 hours ago)

Well they didn't have any past government examples to use as a warning. News and communication back then was also much more limited.

I could grab my rifle and take to the streets

They literally had street battles with armed communists and ww1 veterans fighting each other. The average person was so horrified of living in a war zone that they voted for any party who could stop it.

[–] samus12345@lemm.ee 2 points 13 hours ago (2 children)

Considering most other countries are voting in right-wing governments, sounds like they're in the process of "letting it happen" as well.

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[–] latenightnoir@lemmy.world 43 points 1 day ago (1 children)

It's the looming boiling point. More and more people understand things are going to come to a head Sooner Than Predicted™.

What we're seeing is grief, but multiplied by billions

[–] P00ptart@lemmy.world 21 points 1 day ago (1 children)

Don't know why you were downvoted but you're absolutely right. We thought we were moving in the right direction, only to have the foundations blown out from under us.

[–] latenightnoir@lemmy.world 16 points 1 day ago* (last edited 1 day ago) (1 children)

Not downvoted, I just remove the default upvote which comes with posts/comments, it irks me.

To add to that, most of us didn't have a say in things. Boomers were kinda' the last generation who still had some controls at their disposal, but the system got completely out of our control from Gen X onward. We're just along for the ride as it's crumbling.

Edit: I've realised this may sound as though I'm pointing the blame at Boomers - I'm really not, I firmly believe the game was rigged from the start, it's not down to the average citizen. I was just trying to mark a shifting point.

[–] Zementid@feddit.nl 18 points 1 day ago (6 children)

Solidarity is the word, communists used and Americans banned. Without solidarity you get exactly the USA of today. A nation of egoists.

[–] gandalf_der_12te@discuss.tchncs.de 1 points 10 hours ago (1 children)

I would also point out that "greed" is the problem, not "egoism".

Egoism is a healthy attitude to take care of yourself.

Greed is the unhealthy attitude to do so at other's expense.

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[–] Breezy@lemmy.world 17 points 1 day ago

Im in a bad mood. I cant speak for others. But the world is fucked up.

[–] misty_sea610@lemmy.ml 81 points 1 day ago* (last edited 1 day ago) (10 children)

Certainly, there is a grim atmosphere across many social platforms. Mainly, the last few days from my anecdotal experience.

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[–] greenskye@lemm.ee 41 points 1 day ago (2 children)

I've spent an astronomical amount of effort trying to remove as much depressing and outrage content from my feeds as possible. It's a sisyphian task with new things constantly slipping through the cracks. Which has made me mostly check out of all but a very small list of online spaces (and even then ads and other impossible to turn off 'recommendations' show up).

Outrage and depressing content fuels the web and it's best to recognize that. I've been a lot happier in my ignorance so far and would recommend it to anyone who's privileged enough to get away with it. It's not like being informed and engaged did fuck all for me in the last decade except give me a variety of mental issues.

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[–] daggermoon@lemmy.world 11 points 1 day ago

The world it just ain't right, it keeps me up at night

[–] UltraGiGaGigantic@lemmy.ml 21 points 1 day ago (3 children)
[–] xilliah@beehaw.org 7 points 23 hours ago* (last edited 23 hours ago) (3 children)

God how I hate that I don't know if that's a diffuse model or by an actual artist. And we're just at the start of this!

[–] Alice@beehaw.org 12 points 23 hours ago (2 children)
[–] xilliah@beehaw.org 2 points 17 hours ago

Nice. Insta is blocking me though :/

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[–] zephorah@lemm.ee 35 points 1 day ago (1 children)

We felt it last year. A building up of something. A sense of impending doom. Feelings of grim.

Things are worse especially with Trump making noises about using the American military to take resources. I don’t know who put the Panama canal and Greenland into his head but here we are. He is a guy who would do it too. Making us axis and not ally this go. That’s grim.

Pick and choose your outlets but don’t stick your head in the sand.

[–] SocialMediaRefugee@lemmy.ml 5 points 14 hours ago

I don’t know who put the Panama canal and Greenland into his head

Seriously, it feels like he just crawled out of his basement full of bizarre obsessions.

[–] iltoroargento@lemmy.sdf.org 31 points 1 day ago

Not just you. Lots of negative feeling going around. If I could put a word to what I saw today, it would be "grim".

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